He said it himself: "Maybe I really am a sociopath and incapable of empathy or love," hence why I say maybe I'm in denial with the way I view him at times, and my expectations of him might be highly misplaced--not that I have too many of those...anymore. But on the other hand, there's the whole having been together for 7 years thing, which doesn't seem like it means dick to him as of late, but to me, it's still something worth fighting for.
And so I cling to this relationship with everything I have, even when it seems like he wants to just call it quits and doesn't give a fuck about me/us anymore. Also, he does have his good qualities, and I have a dark side which makes even some of the bad ones appealing.
Nevertheless, according to him, I broke him because we've always been two opposite people, and he needed to change certain aspects of who he was to try to make this work between us, knowing that it wouldn't otherwise. Thus, I've supposedly "created this monster." And his personality is split in two because he doesn't know how to deal with nor accept certain parts of himself, some of that being my fault because of what I've made him become over the years. And he says that he doesn't think we'll ever be able to accept each other and someone will always end up unhappy.
And granted, this isn't the person I thought I once knew anymore. He's callous, vile, and incredibly hurtful at times. Yet, still, something in me wants to keep fighting for this marriage regardless. Perhaps because I'm an idiot with no self-respect whatsoever, I don't know. Or maybe because I keep clinging to the hope that he does love me despite everything and these past 7 years couldn't have been a waste and merely built on lies and denial on both of our ends, because I don't know if I could take it if I ever come to the realization that they were. Not to mention, I'm scared to death of what he would do to himself, what I'd do to myself, and what would become of us if this was truly over.