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How Are You Feeling Right Now?

Lane

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I understand that there are supposed to be good and bad days. Today was not such a good day. My boss was on my ass and work was tedious. But I'm home now doing what I usually do, smoke pot and talk to my cat, then watch something funny on TV. It's the same thing day in and out.
 
Annoyed. My daughter bought a big mixer into the house and it's smack dab in the middle of the counter and it weighs a ton. There's no room inside the cabinets. She drives me nuts basically. The counter is where my son and me sometimes prepare food.

My son gets upset bcz she leaves her stuff all over and we all chip in for a house cleaner every two weeks. So the house is messy anyway. He says I should talk to her because I'm the mother. Im the type to ignore things, which isn't healthy.
In my opinion she shouldn't be leaving the giant mixer in the middle of the counter. We keep our mixer in a cupboard but if there's no place for it, it should be kept in her room. It's not okay to leave you without a food prep area. It wouldn't be okay if she had roommates and it's not okay with family IMHO.

You could say something like "I don't have enough room to prepare food with that big mixer on the counter. What should we do about that?"

I believe your kids are in their mid 20s? I know it's now common for kids to still live with their parents in their 20s but they are adults and should be very grateful that option is there.

My mother would have thrown the mixer in the garbage if I didn't take it off the counter after she asked me too. Not saying that is good behaviour but it's my frame of reference I guess. Your house, your rules. Is she paying rent?
 

AvidFan

Retired Cat Staff
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I understand that there are supposed to be good and bad days. Today was not such a good day. My boss was on my ass and work was tedious. But I'm home now doing what I usually do, smoke pot and talk to my cat, then watch something funny on TV. It's the same thing day in and out.
Sorry you had not so good a day. I hope the next one is better for you!
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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I need to have 4 more teeth pulled on the bottom, so that will be 5 gone in total. It makes me depressed to think I won't have many teeth left there.
 

HappyKitty

Works during the day, doodles at night.
So its my countrys birthday today, its holiday. My brothers have their own plans. My cousins are travelling and my friend that made plans with me today is cancelled cause her kid is sick. So I guess its either me time during the day or if any changes, I could always hang out with my aunt to watch fireworks with her tonight while I pray my headache wont come bck.🥹
 

HappyKitty

Works during the day, doodles at night.
So much. I hate being so directly ill but I feel when I am used to it, I have forgotten what it feels like to share symptoms with others- even I am in denial about it of myself as it progresses and it can be controlling over my life, yes, dramatic. This is when it draws the line when my meds and painkillers aren't working as much. My supposedly "next of kin," mum knows only on surface but not always everyone knows about every little struggle or symptoms. Like I can say "meds is not working, I have been getting headache" and thats it so I felt I have been an expert at keeping it very much to myself cause I know I own it- anything to keep you blinded.

Haha even if I did go to the emergency, I am used to go alone cause I know how immediate it can be and I can say. I wont even have the energy to decide how to chose who to tell or the energy to care to update.
 

JMG

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Disappointed, confused, guilty, sad and probably some other things too. Trying my best to stay positively focused, hopeful, and optimistic about life. I know there is always good and bad and I have many things that I feel very lucky and grateful for.

Wishing the best for everyone, today and always :) *hug*grouphug2
 

Windhover

meandering home
SF Supporter
I need to have 4 more teeth pulled on the bottom, so that will be 5 gone in total. It makes me depressed to think I won't have many teeth left there.
Oh

Witty I'm so sorry that this is necessary. I hope they do it all at once. Because: For me the needle is the worst part. :(
I had just a portion of one pulled and omg it hurt.
Take extra vit C. I have read it is vital for healing and teeth.

Let us know how it's going. *console
 

HappyKitty

Works during the day, doodles at night.
Ok. This week is rest week. I'm glad I have rearranged my work that doesn't affect my medical appointments this month and I could make it to missed days this week. Whew. 🫠 As long as I meet my work requirements. This kinda health disappointments always give me anxiety. Gotta ride the wave and get it done.
 

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