When your enemies insult you or criticize you, when they incite violence against you, as Jesus has directed us, "turn the other cheek". Do not respond to harsh words at all. Just like Jesus did not respond. Let God take revenge and hold them accountable. He said so Himself that "vengeance belongs to me". It's not up to us, therefore, to hurt our brothers and sisters, our friends, in any way by taking vengeance. Act with kindness and compassion and be holy just like the Lord your God is holy, for you are His inheritance. You are His children and He loves you. He loves us all. And it hurts his heart when we react harshly to one another. Remember also that this is not truly your brothers and sisters doing these things to you, not their true heart, but it is the enemy, the devil, who tempts them to act this way. Therefore, forgive, so that anger may not lie in your heart and hinder you.