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Lane

Lane

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MisterBGone said:
Can you keep them separated, by any chance? Or is that out of the question, and unreason (or feasi) able? Hoping it all turns out Ok, Lane! : ) You've got a great Heart. She's fortunate to be able to count on you. And people will use that as an excuse not to... check oneself in, and take care of themselves like that/or in that way... Well, I've got this excuse, which is perfectly good & so on. So I just can't do it, I just can't go. It's been taken out of my hands (the decision). So good on, and for, You Miss L. Ms. L? I know it's not, Mr.'s? Or is it! ;) ~~~ b.
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I just spoke with my niece last night and she said she's in psychosis but is still afraid that my cats will hurt her dog. I did mention your suggestion about separating them, maybe, we will see. I think she's going to stay home. Thanks for caring and responding MisterBgone.
 
MisterBGone

MisterBGone

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Bergerac said:
There's no need; it's ok. It is what it is; nothing can be done. Thanks so much, for trying *hug
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I'm not certain who this 'elderly lady,' is- but suffice to say, that even if you somehow Did manage to secure her, who's to say that that would've done the trick? And that then it just wouldn't have been some-thing else?

It's like that whack-a-mole, game, maybe? Poor analogy, I know... but it's no use in beating yourself up for things that are not in your power to control (their actions) & also, how futile it can be to question yourself, if in fact, as I said: "If it wasn't this, it would've been that!"

So while it's natural, and understandable, because you want so much for it to be (so) - but you can't necessarily will your way into someone else's head/body/mind/spirit/soul... ya di ya di ya da~ & change their thinking, or tell them to do something they are dead set on, or against (in/doing).

Hopefully, that made some sense. Because, now I'm beginning to fool & confuse myself! Try not to let it spend to much time in your head today (the thoughts, & the regret, or whatever else). As it is not healthy, nor productive. And won't help you in whatever future endeavors you look to tackle with this individual (if you are just wearing yourself out).
 
Bergerac

Bergerac

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MisterBGone said:
I'm not certain who this 'elderly lady,' is- but suffice to say, that even if you somehow Did manage to secure her, who's to say that that would've done the trick? And that then it just wouldn't have been some-thing else?

It's like that whack-a-mole, game, maybe? Poor analogy, I know... but it's no use in beating yourself up for things that are not in your power to control (their actions) & also, how futile it can be to question yourself, if in fact, as I said: "If it wasn't this, it would've been that!" So while it's natural, and understandable, because you want so much for it to be (so) - but you can't necessarily will your way into someone else's head/body/mind/spirit/soul... ya di ya di ya da~ & change their thinking, or tell them to do something they are dead set on, or against (in/doing).

Hopefully, that made some sense. Because, now I'm beginning to fool & confuse myself! Try not to let it spend to much time in your head today (the thoughts, & the regret, or whatever else). As it is not healthy, nor productive. And won't help you in whatever future endeavors you look to tackle with this individual (if you are just wearing yourself out).
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You've lost me to a point, lol, and yourself. I get the general idea, though, but she wanted the help, with terminal lung cancer. I'm not sure how your analogy fits into this particular predicament, but I know you mean well and your intentions are good, and that's what counts. *hug
 
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