How Are You Feeling Right Now?

[nicktheundoer]

Sundays are lonely for me but I'm trying to keep in perspective that it's a day just to catch up on small chores like laundry and paying bills. My friend is dropping of homemade soup for me later, I'm so hungry right now. And the kids dishes in the sink and clothes piledin the laundry room is bummin me out a bit, but what else is new.

Questioning moving out across the country to live with my fiance and have to give up my "freedom" to be in someone else's home. He says that's the only way he'll get married, he won't move out here because taxes are like $4000. Higher per year.

On the other hand a fresh start might be good. New job, even though I'd be anxious. There's a lot to it. My adult children live in the home I'm in. It's all very confusing to me.

Everything will be okay..

 

[nicktheundoer]

yes, I have a few, but not sure they will understand sufficiently, or we have anything in common. But, I'm grateful.

Thank you. How are you?

I'm doing not bad..Thanks for asking..wbu?

 

[Bergerac]

I'm doing not bad..Thanks for asking..wbu?

Not too bad, thank you

 

[Windhover]

@Bergerac

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[Bergerac]

@Bergerac

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Thank you so much. Those hugs are very much appreciated.
How are you doing?

 

[Windhover]

@Bergerac I am still in pain. The brain and heart are moving it around though, so that is a good sign. I too appreciate the hugs, very much.

 

[Bergerac]

@Bergerac I am still in pain. The brain and heart are moving it around though, so that is a good sign. I too appreciate the hugs, very much.

I'm very sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you. Please keep us updated. Sending you love and strength, and thanks so much for always supporting me (and others) here.

 

[Lane]

Feeling uneasy at work and sad too, perhaps anxious. I just want to go home and crawl under the covers.

 

[1964dodge]

not doing great but soso and hopefully tomorrow will be a good day. i go through times like this and always bounce back. i have to go out tomorrow so that will help.

mike

 

[MisterBGone]

not doing great but soso and hopefully tomorrow will be a good day. i go through times like this and always bounce back. i have to go out tomorrow so that will help.

mike

Anything in particular bugging you this evening dodge? Or just more of the usual? Like you say - tomorrow, tomorrow, there's always tomorrow! (but until then, today...) Grr~, for sure :/

 

[MisterBGone]

Feeling uneasy at work and sad too, perhaps anxious. I just want to go home and crawl under the covers.

Hoping those covers are now securely over your head. And you are blissfully at ease~*>//_) without a care in the world! Not a thing can get to you... that's what I'd wish for you; if we will it to be? (just) maybe!

 

[KM76710]

Feeling uneasy at work and sad too, perhaps anxious. I just want to go home and crawl under the covers.

The simple comfort of warmth and rest under cozy covers can often be a boon to your spirits. I hope they will be for yourself. A bit of relaxing and letting go can often clear the mind and ease the stress. My wish they do in your case.

 

[HappyKitty]

new low. hypothyroidism be giving me depression😂

 

[Bergerac]

Need to relax and do one thing at once

 

[HappyKitty]

I feel scared to go hospital most times, yet im happy I took care of myself. Its just frightening every time you'd go to an emergency, my palpations took a while to go down after taking the blood pressure twice. the bp machine beep scares me and even the ecg still doesn't go down. its crazy to go to emergency room twice this month, Im glad the doctors were nice. when comes to neuro things, it just affected your vitals. i dont like it only when they questioned my mental state lol leave me alone with that

im just praying it shall pass or sth like that while my doc continue to monitor cause i need to finish my probation 🥺

 

[foreverforgotten]

Training at work is nerve wracking. We are forced to do group activities. And my teammates are ignoring me. I tried. Feels awful.

Crying at the simplest things. In bathroom. 3 more days of this training

 

[MisterBGone]

Training at work is nerve wracking. We are forced to do group activities. And my teammates are ignoring me. I tried. Feels awful.

Crying at the simplest things. In bathroom. 3 more days of this training

Groups & group-activity takes time to get used to, and feel comfortable (in doing)... Try not to over-analyze / or over-think it! It's awkward to a certain degree, to more people (there) than it isn't. Most people are just really good at not showing it. How many times have you seen somebody go up in a public place and give a speech, or some kind of presentation, and they look remarkably calm. Only to later find out, if you're lucky - that their nerves were fried?

It can kind of be a similar thing at play here, too. Because everybody doesn't know everybody (else) & so, what comes off as "being comfortable," is really more just well packaged, or 'bundled,' energy (or nerves). Nervous energy, if you'd like. Like a comedian who goes on stage. They learn to eventually harnass some of that, and use it to their favor. But for a while, it is a bit of a mess. Or it can be. . .

I don't know if I'm making any sense, forever? but please don't be so hard on yourself. It's all about jumping through the hoops & so that you can team-build, and learn some things about your new work digs. I bet it starts to get easier by the end as you get (more) used to it. But if it doesn't, it's only 3 days, and what's 3 days - in "a Life?"

 

[Harrow]

Feel like I am having a massive breakdown

 

[Windhover]

Feel like I am having a massive breakdown

hi

sending a hug @Harrow

 

[AvidFan]

Feel like I am having a massive breakdown

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