It is hard.
But sometimes I feel like just getting relief of our bad situation is gonna make things a lot better.
I agree. But I guess that's what I meant right ? When we are unable to get out of xyz situation so trauma keeps adding up but you have not yet healed from the earlier one , so it keeps building an endless stack.
But , if trauma could just stop adding up , which I think you mean ? Then yes, things can get way better ( speaking for myself ) , it could be different for everyone.
The leftover grief can still be at times quite hard to deal with.