I got banned from a forum
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Honestly? It's not a real reason to ban someone. It's obviously a very toxic and horrible forum and you're too good for a place like that. I completely understand why you are hurt - you should be hurt because that's a disgusting thing to say and it's not acceptable under any circumstances at all.
You know that we adore you here just as you are and wouldn't change you for the world. If anything, the world needs to change and stop being so horrible for no reason. Just try not to take it too personally and try to understand that there are some really bad forums out there that are going to hurt people no matter if they are autistic or not.
To be very honest, it makes me incredibly angry that you were treated like that so all I can say is just be careful of which forums you join because some of them are just plain nasty. Take care
tackles ox
You know that we adore you here just as you are and wouldn't change you for the world. If anything, the world needs to change and stop being so horrible for no reason. Just try not to take it too personally and try to understand that there are some really bad forums out there that are going to hurt people no matter if they are autistic or not.
To be very honest, it makes me incredibly angry that you were treated like that so all I can say is just be careful of which forums you join because some of them are just plain nasty. Take care
tackles ox
Honestly? It's not a real reason to ban someone. It's obviously a very toxic and horrible forum and you're too good for a place like that. I completely understand why you are hurt - you should be hurt because that's a disgusting thing to say and it's not acceptable under any circumstances at all.
You know that we adore you here just as you are and wouldn't change you for the world. If anything, the world needs to change and stop being so horrible for no reason. Just try not to take it too personally and try to understand that there are some really bad forums out there that are going to hurt people no matter if they are autistic or not.
To be very honest, it makes me incredibly angry that you were treated like that so all I can say is just be careful of which forums you join because some of them are just plain nasty. Take caretackles ox
You know that we adore you here just as you are and wouldn't change you for the world. If anything, the world needs to change and stop being so horrible for no reason. Just try not to take it too personally and try to understand that there are some really bad forums out there that are going to hurt people no matter if they are autistic or not.
To be very honest, it makes me incredibly angry that you were treated like that so all I can say is just be careful of which forums you join because some of them are just plain nasty. Take care
tackles ox
It is and not only did they ban you, they give a stupid reason too. Shows that the forum is run by idiots and you're better off not being there. Leave them to it. It's the new thing to call people autistic online and make fun of them because of it. Easy thing to do when you can hide behind anonymity.
Hey Classic,
I'm sorry for what happened to you and agree with what others have said. It's completely unacceptable and you didn't deserve such treatment. What I hate to see is you internalizing it and blaming yourself when they are actually completely at fault. You did absolutely nothing wrong. The site sounds uncompassionate and even possibly fraudulent., everything you are not, so please realize it's for the best and you are in no way to blame.
I'm sorry for what happened to you and agree with what others have said. It's completely unacceptable and you didn't deserve such treatment. What I hate to see is you internalizing it and blaming yourself when they are actually completely at fault. You did absolutely nothing wrong. The site sounds uncompassionate and even possibly fraudulent., everything you are not, so please realize it's for the best and you are in no way to blame.
It happens. There so many forums out there. Some of them you get mods who are up their own arse and think they are hot shit. Power, even as small as being a mod gets to people's heads and they think it is okay to use that power to be horrible and get away with it.
Most forums I visit I don't interact or even sign up as I am just looking for pc advice, sports news or some niche thing and forums are great for that. I am sure I have visited hundreds of forums (music, sports, food, depression, anxiety, pc related) over the years, but I avoid signing up now as most of them (in my experience) seem to have certain members or mods who just want to cause trouble and single people out.
In my view, you aren't to blame for getting banned and from the reason they gave it is clear to me they are being dicks. I'm sorry this has upset you but please remember that you are better than them.
Most forums I visit I don't interact or even sign up as I am just looking for pc advice, sports news or some niche thing and forums are great for that. I am sure I have visited hundreds of forums (music, sports, food, depression, anxiety, pc related) over the years, but I avoid signing up now as most of them (in my experience) seem to have certain members or mods who just want to cause trouble and single people out.
In my view, you aren't to blame for getting banned and from the reason they gave it is clear to me they are being dicks. I'm sorry this has upset you but please remember that you are better than them.
Hi @ClassicShowsFan I think the admin of whatever site you are on let their ''power'' go to their heads. How dare they ban you for being ''too autistic''. You're much better off without those kind of people in your life. Stay here on SF where it is safe, friendly and moderator friendly. I hope all the replies on this thread have shown you that it's their problem not yours. You don't need them 
Well, you're certainly not alone! There are a LOT of members on the spectrum here - more than you'd realise actually.
My son is autistic and there are lots of other members here who have autistic children/ siblings/ friends etc. Infact, SF is made up of many people with different special needs etc. I don't like putting "labels" on people because it doesn't define who any of us are anyway. We're all special and unique in our own way. I think you're an amazing young lady too ox
My son is autistic and there are lots of other members here who have autistic children/ siblings/ friends etc. Infact, SF is made up of many people with different special needs etc. I don't like putting "labels" on people because it doesn't define who any of us are anyway. We're all special and unique in our own way. I think you're an amazing young lady too
ox
Well, you're certainly not alone! There are a LOT of members on the spectrum here - more than you'd realise actually.
My son is autistic and there are lots of other members here who have autistic children/ siblings/ friends etc. Infact, SF is made up of many people with different special needs etc. I don't like putting "labels" on people because it doesn't define who any of us are anyway. We're all special and unique in our own way. I think you're an amazing young lady too ox
My son is autistic and there are lots of other members here who have autistic children/ siblings/ friends etc. Infact, SF is made up of many people with different special needs etc. I don't like putting "labels" on people because it doesn't define who any of us are anyway. We're all special and unique in our own way. I think you're an amazing young lady too
ox
There is nothing ''wrong'' with you, you don't have to change a thing, the world can change its heart.
Well, you're certainly not alone! There are a LOT of members on the spectrum here - more than you'd realise actually.
My son is autistic and there are lots of other members here who have autistic children/ siblings/ friends etc. Infact, SF is made up of many people with different special needs etc. I don't like putting "labels" on people because it doesn't define who any of us are anyway. We're all special and unique in our own way. I think you're an amazing young lady too ox
My son is autistic and there are lots of other members here who have autistic children/ siblings/ friends etc. Infact, SF is made up of many people with different special needs etc. I don't like putting "labels" on people because it doesn't define who any of us are anyway. We're all special and unique in our own way. I think you're an amazing young lady too
ox
I'm so sorry that happened to you @ClassicShowsFan *blub
That's just plain spiteful and mean and shows what truly hideous people they really are. There's nothing wrong with how you are, they're the ones in the wrong.
That's just plain spiteful and mean and shows what truly hideous people they really are. There's nothing wrong with how you are, they're the ones in the wrong.
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