I Have Stomach pains...

[Aprilflowers7]

I have stomach pains almost every few weeks now. I think it is because my mother forces me to do things I don't want to do. I feel like I am her slave. If I don't do what she wants, she won't help me with anything. I think she is embarrassed because I had surgery. Surgery means you are weak according to her. I don't know how to fix it because I think my mother is causing the stomach pain. I just recently had to pay cash for some medication for it that I don't even need when all my mother needs to do is to help me in the way she is supposed to help me. I feel like she doesn't really love me she just loves her average children. But I can't get away from it. Even after she passes away, my sister will take control of my life and she acts just like our mother. I don't know where to go. The doctor only talks to my mother when we're in the room and not me. Both the doctors and my family and everyone else around me acts like I don't even exist.

 

[may71]

The doctor only talks to my mother when we're in the room and not me

Since you're an adult, you should be able to get private medical appointments and have the doctor only talk to you.

It sounds like your mom will just try to cling to control over you as long as she can get away with it.

Do you want to talk about ways that you might be able to live independently?

 

[moxman]

hello, i am barry.

I have a lot of stomach pains also. My stomach pains are from Colitis and not having a large intestine. i feel like i have a small idea of what you may be growing through.

your mother sounds like a narcissistic person. i feel like you need to go see the doctor and update who he can and who he cannot talk too.

how long have you had these pains? don't worry about what your mom says/thinks , worry about you getting better.

 

[Walker]

Not sure why your mother is attending appointments with you at age 36.

I don't even need when all my mother needs to do is to help me in the way she is supposed to help me.

Also not sure what this means.