I miss you

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by Rewound, Jun 24, 2016.

  1. Rewound

    Rewound Member

    It's been nearly a year since I lost them. Everytime I close my eyes I see them , those last few moments playing over and over . I cant' stop the nightmares and I miss them so much. No wallowing or regret is going to bring them back but I just can't get past it. It should have been me.
  2. Shadowlands

    Shadowlands Official SF Hugger Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    (hugs) Sorry to hear that you have lost someone.
  3. Rewound

    Rewound Member

    Thanks Shadowlands .
  4. Rockclimbinggirl

    Rockclimbinggirl SF climber Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    *hugs* Sorry for your loss.
  5. Rewound

    Rewound Member

    Thank you *hugs*
  6. I can't imagine how that feels. I'm sorry..
  7. Rewound

    Rewound Member

    Thank you, I feel bad feeling like this when people have so much worse to deal with sometimes
  8. Witty_Sarcasm

    Witty_Sarcasm Eccentric writer, general weirdo, heedless heathen

    You shouldn't feel bad about that. Yes, there will always be people out there with more to deal with, but that doesn't mean that your issues are any less significant. I am sorry for your loss. I know how heartbreaking that can be. I hope that talking about things will help to ease some of the pain.
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  9. This is very true.
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  10. Rewound

    Rewound Member

    Thank you, being here and seeing peoples kind words is helping.
  11. Charlotte918

    Charlotte918 Member

    I heard someone say something recently about their own loss which I found helpful. "You haven't lost a friend, you've gained a guardian angel". That hole in your heart does not leave and you can't fill it. It is a problem that no logic will solve. To say it should have been you is false logic applied to a situation that defies any logic. You are here, and that is what counts. I know that in my own grief I had to sort through all kinds of things people said to find those which were truly helpful and provided meaning to something I couldn't understand. My thoughts are with your aching heart for the pain you are feeling.
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  12. Deety

    Deety Well-Known Member

    Hugs to you, I am sorry for your loss.
  13. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I'm very sorry for your loss, no two peoples pain are the same so it's best not to compare them. I hope you can get through this difficult time in your life.