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I want to run away from home but I don't know what will happen to my family

#1
I don't know what will happen to my mom and my little siblings. They will probably get killed by my dad. I really can not go on any more. My dad is controlling and abusive and do not let me to leave the house. I don't know how much I can keep going on this way. I'm tired. I want to be free. I have a job as a teacher assistant and I haven't worked for more than 8 months. I haven't left the house for more than 8 months. I'm not allowed to. I'm basically imprisoned in this home. I only went to work 2 days a week and it was all controlled and monitored. I can't live like this. I'm 28 years old and have this lifestyle for more than 10 years and it dramatically escalated in the previous 2_3 years. I don't care what happens to me I really don't care.
 
#2
I don't know what will happen to my mom and my little siblings. They will probably get killed by my dad. I really can not go on any more. My dad is controlling and abusive and do not let me to leave the house. I don't know how much I can keep going on this way. I'm tired. I want to be free. I have a job as a teacher assistant and I haven't worked for more than 8 months. I haven't left the house for more than 8 months. I'm not allowed to. I'm basically imprisoned in this home. I only went to work 2 days a week and it was all controlled and monitored. I can't live like this. I'm 28 years old and have this lifestyle for more than 10 years and it dramatically escalated in the previous 2_3 years. I don't care what happens to me I really don't care.


I'm praying for safety and guidance for you, your mom and your little siblings. *sadhug
 
#3
I don't know if this is applicable in your situation but would it be possible to sneak out while he's gone or asleep and to head to the closest police station?

Depending on where you are you could also try texting the police. There are a lot of emergency SMS services and I'd encourage you to check if there's one for your location.


I don't know if this is really useful to you but I really hope that you find something to get yourself out of there.

I seriously wish you all the best *sadhug
 
#5
Damn, I feel you, I had a similar experience when I was back home and I flew away to another country because I met my current bf (I kinda regret it and it’s super dangerous to do that)
I honestly think you should record your dad when he starts to be abusive in any way bc in the future it might help you against him and also it protects you. And the fact that you’re 28 years old and they still controlling you what ever you go out or no it’s unacceptable I’m very sorry for you and I get you. I had same parents my mom couldn’t let me out or have friends but with time I started to shock them and not letting them controlling me. I know it’s easy to say but you have to fight for your life because I promise you it doesn’t matter how old u get, they will still try to control you(my personal experience and observations)

I don’t know if it makes sense to you but I give you all my love and strength, take care of yourself you’re strong.
 

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