is he just blowing me off

[Izziebabystar]

over the past two or three weeks my bf and i have only been able to see each other on a sunday beacuse of his low cash flow and my cash flow being like nothing
it was ok beacuse its the thing that kept me looking forward beacuse i knew i got to see him at the end of each week
he phoned me last night and said ive got some bad news i was like ok
he told me before we got together hed organised to spend a day with his dad when his dad got time off work
so this sunday (the day me and my bf usualy get to see eachother) were not going to see each other
he also told me that next sunday hes working so we wont be able to see each other
then he says the weekend after that hes watching arsnel play on the sat so on the sunday hell be to tired and hell be recovering so we cant see each otehr then
then he says he has some good news and that the monday after hes watched arsnel play hes toook off work so we can spend time together
hes coming to see me tonight but like yeh
so ill only have seen him twice in the space of a month
is it just me being paranoid or is he blowing me offff????????????

 

[Rockster]

To be honest it could be general "he is busy". When you see him tonight you should be able to work out if he is blowing you off or not. Hopefully he isn't but why don't you work it out with him where you two dont see each other for a few weeks BUT save up and see each other for like a week before he has to go back to work? And i used to be a plymouth lad so i know what its like

 

[~PinkElephants~]

I don't think he's blowing you off because you are seeing him tonight and though he seems very busy you will get to seem him that Monday. The way to tell if he's blowing you off is to see if over time he stops calling, texting, or however you communicate. If that happens then it's time to sit him down and ask him what's really going on. As for now I just think he's super busy with seeing his dad and other things. Just be patient and if things seem to be pushing further apart then talk to him.

Good luck hun
K.

 

[LostSpirit]

I no men can b idiots- but he would rather watch footie then see his gf?! it seems he only wants to see you on his terms! i would seriously think about what you really want, you should'nt settle for second best, and to me if someone really loves you, they will try there best to see you as soon as, not make excuses x

 

[serivok]

you should talk to him about it.

 

[Reki]

He's going to watch a game Saturday so he's going to be too tired on Sunday? Riiiiight. Talk to him about it.

 

[Izziebabystar]

well i saw him last night
and i told him i kinda felt like a spare part
he told me i was being silly
and hell try and see me 1 or 2 evenings instead
my mum went out and my lil bro was on his xbox
so me and the bf went up stairs to the bath room
we did oral sex
but when it came to intercourse
he couldnt keep it up
was it me ???
im kinda feeling at a lost cause right now
if he couldnt keep it up
it had to be my fault right?????

 

[~PinkElephants~]

err, i dont think that that's your fault. He might seriously want to go and get it checked out b/c he might have some kind of sexual dysfunction. Either that or maybe he wasnt in the mood. Who knows?