A friend told me that a client of hers described his feeling of depression - and multiple suicide attempts - as having fallen into a deep hole but catching the sides. And at some point your arms are simply going to give out. On May 20, 2017, my arms gave out. I've known since I was 12 years old that I would leave this earth by suicide. It's a secret I had held for 37 years, never once telling anyone. <mod edit> methods </mod edit> Oh NO moment to say the least. I still have no one to talk to about it. I feel tremendous guilt for being suicidal when I actually have a good life. I have lots of friends, but so many of them are dealing with actual crises in their lives (such as sudden death of a boyfriend, divorce, child with heroin addiction, etc. ) that I would never bother them with this issue. My husband is still furious and may never forgive me for doing this to him. Because not only do my close friends and co-workers know what I did, but my friend who is law enforcement found me when she broke into my home because I hadn't answered my phone. Since she's the one who called for help, I've been told my street was filled with police, fire and EMS. Since my husband was a cop, you can imagine he was mortified. Then add to that he had to clean up behind the first responders, and since I didn't leave a note, put him at risk for investigation if I had succeeded. My children don't know and I don't plan to ever tell them. I've been looking for a way to connect with others that have been brought back and forced to face life again, for now. Today, I found this site.
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