Jim’s cafe 23/4/2021. Strengths and weakness.

[HappyKitty]

Long story short... After going through few sessions at EMDR, processing grief for losing independence because of medical trauma after its assessments done, (but hopefully will regain & maintain my independence back with physio soon...) my therapist told me that people like me tend to be criticised a lot cause of our uncommon condition but fear no more, she assessed my strengths and weakness too, to build up self esteem. Here’s mine, whats yours? 😺



Tag: @Ash600 @Walker @Auri @Aurelia @pooky @sinking_ship @Bergerac @Lady Wolfshead @1964dodge @Lane @Baywasp @JMG @Champagne @FlamingoWrangler @britishbloke @Sunspots @Gonz @Nick @Pebble mouse @Witty⭐️Sarcasm ⭐️

 

[johnDoen]

I think it's a good idea. You have a good therapist. So, here are my strengths and weaknesses:

Strengths

• Intelligent and curious
• Hard-working and organized
• Creative and artistic, in a sense
• Handy and adaptive in term of science and technology

Weaknesses

• Strict, to myself and others
• Workaholic and stressed from working
• Unattractive in appearance. Nerdy and Asian, sort of.

 

[JMG]

Tysm for tagging me & opening the cafe today @HappyKitty Cool theme too, I'll post mine & also an INFP pic I found a while ago that I like (think it will be pretty obvious why I like it so much lol but it does apply to me too since I'm an INFP)

I'll tag some more people too - @Kiwi2016 @Inya @MisterBGone @Road to Nowhere @Autumn1973 @may71 @KM76710 @extraterrestrialone @adamjam

What I think some of my strengths are:

- Accepting
- Compassionate
- Down to earth
- Thoughtful
- Sincere
- Creative
- Neat and organized

Some weaknesses:

- Indecision
- Insecure/ low confidence
- Too intense (sometimes)
- Extreme (especially with moods)
- Unsure of myself/conflicted
- Can sometimes dwell too much on negative/ have a hard time "letting things go"
- Often struggle with staying "balanced" about things

Purposely made each of the lists have an equal number of things. Ok here's the INFP pic now ❤

 

[HappyKitty]

Workaholic and stressed from working

You sound like my big sister when I asked about hers. She answers like: my strength is work. my weakness is work. -_- but yours is better haha

 

[JMG]

Not sure if there's any point in the tagging but I'm choosing to have some faith here, thought of some more ppl to tag:
@Dante @Ineluki @Blue Star @Kira @Harrow @Innocent Forever @JDot @foreverforgotten @Catch_22

 

[Lane]

I'm glad you have a therapist that's working well with you @HappyKitty . Thank you for opening and tagging me too.

Strenghts.

Independent, caring, curious, hard working

Weaknesses

Procrastinator, self-doubt, don't voice opinion as much as I should, can be impatient sometimes

 

[Lane]

I think my friends here have many strengths. @Nick @MosesY @britishbloke @cymbele @FFurry @Harrow @extraterrestrialone @LonelyHiker @Holding my breath

 

[Lane]

@KindaOtiose @Pebble mouse @Auri @Blue Star @Quietus @Bbear82 @NotSoNormal @PrincessPure

 

[Bergerac]

Thanks for opening, and thanks for the tag, @HappyKitty

This will actually help me to do my own character appraisal, and improve on some aspects. A clever idea.


Strengths:
Loyal
Compassionate
Thorough
A good listener
Empathetic
Analytical

Weaknesses:
Worrying
Not as intelligent as I would like
Selfish
Not as intuitive as I would wish, or as perceptive

They are plenty more for each, I am sure, but I will think on it. Really gives you things to work on, not just for self-improvement but to credit yourself as well.

Hope lots of members get involved in this.

All have a lovely weekend. Sending my best wishes.

@Shadowlands

 

[PrincessPure]

Hi, thanks or the tag!

Strengths:

*loyalty

Well this got me thinking a lot about my personality's strong aspects, sadly I can't come up with no more

Weaknesses:

*Lack of confidence
*Make weird jokes when I'm clearly unfunny
* Overthinker
* Can't have a decent conversation without making a fool of myself
*Lazy as hell

 

[Bergerac]

Hi, thanks or the tag!

Strengths:

*loyalty

Well this got me thinking a lot about my personality's strong aspects, sadly I can't come up with no more

Weaknesses:

*Lack of confidence
*Make weird jokes when I'm clearly unfunny
* Overthinker
* Can't have a decent conversation without making a fool of myself
*Lazy as hell

I find loyalty is the gate, or underpinning, for a lot of other good traits.

 

[Holding my breath]

Thank you for the tag @Lane
Here’s my list:

strengths:
loyal
Empathetic
Hard working
Organised
Kind
Selfless
Good listener


weaknesses:
Lack of confidence
Self critical
Impatient
Won’t let go
Always
Permanent stressed
Withdrawn
Unassertive

Probably more but this is what Ive come up with for now.
Hope everyone is coping ok today. Take care and stay safe. Xx

 

[Kira]

Thanks for opening @HappyKitty and for the tag @JMG

I'm not in the best headspace to post anything but I wanted to say thank you anyway.

 

[Bergerac]

Thanks for opening @HappyKitty and for the tag @JMG

I'm not in the best headspace to post anything but I wanted to say thank you anyway.

Sending you s

 

[Lane]

Thanks for opening @HappyKitty and for the tag @JMG

I'm not in the best headspace to post anything but I wanted to say thank you anyway.

 

[Kira]

Sending you s

Thank you both oxox

 

[Auri]

Thanks for opening @HappyKitty and for the tag @JMG

I'm not in the best headspace to post anything but I wanted to say thank you anyway.

Thinking about you.

 

[Auri]

Hi @HappyKitty , thank you for opening the Café today. I enjoyed reading everyone's answers, it made me smile on a gloomy day (ok, an almost-smile, because I don't really smile).

 

[HappyKitty]

Hi @HappyKitty , thank you for opening the Café today. I enjoyed reading everyone's answers, it made me smile on a gloomy day (ok, an almost-smile, because I don't really smile).

Ikr thats what I feel at the therapist when was asked to do that too cause I’ve been crying a lot. She even say “kitty, you’re not impatient. Don’t listen to your past therapist.” Then she explains this.

Kitty wants to see yours @Auri 😺

 

[Auri]

Ikr thats what I feel at the therapist when was asked to do that too cause I’ve been crying a lot. She even say “kitty, you’re not impatient. Don’t listen to your past therapist.” Then she explains this.

Kitty wants to see yours @Auri 😺

Okay, here's quite an exhaustive list...

Weaknesses :

• Serious privacy issues, secretive, hiding
• Silent, very shy, distant, cold
• I struggle with clearly communicating what I want to convey (orally)
• Neurotic, stressed
• Indecisive af, overthinking
• Very poor self-esteem
• Too analytical for my own good
• Kinda susceptible at times, too sensitive, weak
• My brain is slow these days
• Perfectionistic (in a bad way)
• No creativity

Strengths :

• Loyal
• Passionate, enthusiastic
• Somewhat optimistic
• Not judgmental, I see the best in everyone
• Compassionate, kind
• Involuntarily funny, if I let go of the silence. Not talking about my stupid sarcasm, but my very close friends would say that and I never understood why... Now I think it comes from me openly mocking how my dysfunctional, weird brain works.
• My brain analyzes everything all. the. time.
• Honest