Jim’s cafe 23/4/2021. Strengths and weakness.

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Hey, HappyKitty Thanks for opening the cafe. Thanks for the tag, JMG

My biggest strength is Autumn. She is the person I want to be because she is everything that is good about me. She is what I'm referring to when I say I'm looking for people I can be myself around. My true self.

My biggest weakness is Mike. The person I was born as because he is the result of what his family and society wanted him to be. Mike is a product of a very negative environment. Mike is the dark side of the force, while Autumn is the light. I think this is the best way to sum it up. Mike was raised to be picked on, to be a whipping boy. While Autumn was protected from this because I kept her, who she was, in my mind and heart, kept her secret for most of my life. I think Mike protected her from becoming something awful. That's how I look at it now.

Relate. Thanks for sharing.

 

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Your weakness is considered to be the strength society looks for in its whipping-boys. I can definitely relate to your weakness, Kira. Being a good person is now considered to be more of a weakness than it ever has been. I'm sorry that you've had to deal with the same issues I have.

I do as well. Thank you all for letting me know I'm not alone.

 

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Thank you for the invite @JMG
Strengths:
Right now, I don't have it to be on here. I came to respond to a few msgs and let other offline parts take over. But I feel it's a strength to not shut off always what overwhelms you..so even with trauma I try.
Weaknesses:
Right now I can't communicate much..and it's not going very well when I do, so brain shuts off..it's traumatic, it's a weakness.
It's also a weakness that I can't do a personality test as a multiple, it won't give any correct personality, just the altered one who happens to take the test. I learned awhile ago to just avoid it as it's too stressful. My core personality/self never had a chance to develop in safety, and I was destroyed in this manner from childhood, so I struggle talking about it.
Nice to read everyone here.