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Jim's cafe - Monday 1st June 2020
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- Who is your hero
- Can't really say I've actually got a particular one tbh
- If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
- Mountain chalet in Switzerland
- What is your biggest fear?
- The unkonown
- What was your favorite family vacation?
- That's hard to choose from, Switzerland, Singapore, Bali, to name but a few.
- What would you change about yourself if you could?
- Removal of self doubt
- What really makes you angry?
- Intolerance, narrow mindedness, greed, blinkered thinking in others
I never have plans, really, but I've been meaning to go out in the garden to sing more and maybe learn the lyrics of more of my favourite band's newer songs.
- Who is your hero?
- My parents.
- If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
- Somewhere nice and quiet, preferably surrounded by nature and also somewhere where it snows more often.
- What is your biggest fear?
- People, mostly because of social anxiety. Either that or bugs, especially larger ones.
- What was your favorite family vacation?
- Never been on one.
- What would you change about yourself if you could?
- I'd get rid of my social anxiety.
- What really makes you angry?
- Myself, more than anything else.
Who is your hero?
I don't really have heroes. There are people I 've met in my life and certain historical figures that I admire.
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
Somewhere around the Mediterranean - Italy, Greece...
What is your biggest fear?
Some of my biggest fears is probably poverty. I worry that I wouldn't be able to work due to illness and end up really poor or homeless.
What was your favorite family vacation?
Hmmm....most of the vacations with my family were not very pleasant. But when I was very little, around may be 4 or 5 years' old, we were camping at the Black Sea shore and it was amazing. My now diseased aunt and uncle were there, together with some family friends, we were sleeping in tents and playing at the beach all day and I was eating macaroni and cheese every day
What would you change about yourself if you could?
I have been struggling with weight issues all my life and now I have put on a little bit extra, so .... I'd really love to be thinner and have a nicer body.
What really makes you angry?
Lies, betrayal, cruelty, being inconsiderate with others
I don't really have heroes. There are people I 've met in my life and certain historical figures that I admire.
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
Somewhere around the Mediterranean - Italy, Greece...
What is your biggest fear?
Some of my biggest fears is probably poverty. I worry that I wouldn't be able to work due to illness and end up really poor or homeless.
What was your favorite family vacation?
Hmmm....most of the vacations with my family were not very pleasant. But when I was very little, around may be 4 or 5 years' old, we were camping at the Black Sea shore and it was amazing. My now diseased aunt and uncle were there, together with some family friends, we were sleeping in tents and playing at the beach all day and I was eating macaroni and cheese every day
What would you change about yourself if you could?
I have been struggling with weight issues all my life and now I have put on a little bit extra, so .... I'd really love to be thinner and have a nicer body.
What really makes you angry?
Lies, betrayal, cruelty, being inconsiderate with others
Who is your hero?
My Mum - I know that's proper cliche but she's been through one abusive husband, one who was arrested, raised 2 kids on her own, worked 24/7 to scrape by and still has such a positive outlook. Or my Granddad, purely because he's a legend.
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
Somewhere by the sea! Somewhere in Scotland because its gorgeous but I'm not too far from my family.
What is your biggest fear?
Being stalked, I know that sounds so dumb but I'm so afraid of someone following me or turning up outside my house. And the dark!
What was your favorite family vacation?
Isle of Man with my sister and grandparents. We watched the waves the size of giants hit the coast, explored the scenery and the history and it was just amazing to be with them.
What would you change about yourself if you could?
Many things!! My weight (appearance in general, I wish there was a Sims design thingy so I could choose how I look, haha!), my confidence, I'd be kinder, I'd have more self control. I think they're the things I want more than most right now.
What really makes you angry?
When my sister opens a new bottle when the old one isn't finished, what is that?!
People getting teamed up on and bullied. Any bullying is unpleasant but when it's loads on one person it makes me really upset.
Sorry these questions are so fun!
Sending hugs!
Em
My Mum - I know that's proper cliche but she's been through one abusive husband, one who was arrested, raised 2 kids on her own, worked 24/7 to scrape by and still has such a positive outlook. Or my Granddad, purely because he's a legend.
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
Somewhere by the sea! Somewhere in Scotland because its gorgeous but I'm not too far from my family.
What is your biggest fear?
Being stalked, I know that sounds so dumb but I'm so afraid of someone following me or turning up outside my house. And the dark!
What was your favorite family vacation?
Isle of Man with my sister and grandparents. We watched the waves the size of giants hit the coast, explored the scenery and the history and it was just amazing to be with them.
What would you change about yourself if you could?
Many things!! My weight (appearance in general, I wish there was a Sims design thingy so I could choose how I look, haha!), my confidence, I'd be kinder, I'd have more self control. I think they're the things I want more than most right now.
What really makes you angry?
When my sister opens a new bottle when the old one isn't finished, what is that?!
People getting teamed up on and bullied. Any bullying is unpleasant but when it's loads on one person it makes me really upset.
Sorry these questions are so fun!
Sending hugs!
Em
I don't have any plans this week- just survive the anxiety and depression again and pray each week gets closer to a better week 
would like to go for some more walks once my stomach ache has gone though
Who is your hero?
I don't have one
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
Cornwall
What is your biggest fear?
I don't want to spell it out cause it makes me feel sick, but basically what's happening right now in my life, and other things that have already happened in recent years
What was your favorite family vacation?
every summer when I was a kid we went to my grandparent's bungalow in Norfolk (UK). It was in the countryside and near the beach. I loved it. It was so pretty and fun.
What would you change about yourself if you could?
I'd be more resilient. It's tiring being sensitive and emotional and caring so much. I used to be very resilient when I was a teenager, barely anything bothered me. I miss feeling like that, it was liberating and it was a lot easier to get through life being like that
What really makes you angry?
injustice (specifically people being shit to others unfairly and hurting them and getting away with it, more so if they gaslight or deflect), when people are thoughtless/inconsiderate to other's feelings, narrow-mindedness, hypocrisy, arrogance, animal neglect/cruelty, anything or anyone hurting or causing stress to or disrespecting people or animals I love- the scorpio deep love protectiveness in me goes bloody mad, people disrespecting others in general, people that are judgemental
would like to go for some more walks once my stomach ache has gone thoughWho is your hero?
I don't have one
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
Cornwall
What is your biggest fear?
I don't want to spell it out cause it makes me feel sick, but basically what's happening right now in my life, and other things that have already happened in recent years
What was your favorite family vacation?
every summer when I was a kid we went to my grandparent's bungalow in Norfolk (UK). It was in the countryside and near the beach. I loved it. It was so pretty and fun.
What would you change about yourself if you could?
I'd be more resilient. It's tiring being sensitive and emotional and caring so much. I used to be very resilient when I was a teenager, barely anything bothered me. I miss feeling like that, it was liberating and it was a lot easier to get through life being like that
What really makes you angry?
injustice (specifically people being shit to others unfairly and hurting them and getting away with it, more so if they gaslight or deflect), when people are thoughtless/inconsiderate to other's feelings, narrow-mindedness, hypocrisy, arrogance, animal neglect/cruelty, anything or anyone hurting or causing stress to or disrespecting people or animals I love- the scorpio deep love protectiveness in me goes bloody mad
, people disrespecting others in general, people that are judgemental
Thank you for the tag @Innocent Forever
♡´･ᴗ･`♡ hope things are going okay this Monday..
Who is your hero?
My dad
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
Oregon/ Washington state
What is your biggest fear?
Mom dying. Mom going into a bad nursing facility, not being able to pay bills, being homeless,
What was your favorite family vacation?
Mt. Rainier with my dad. Long Beach, WA.
My Aunt V's house with dad. Camping in Alpine AZ with dad .
What would you change about yourself if you could?
My fear of screwing up. Of being rejected.
My confidence.
What really makes you angry?
Rich people who are greedy, Capitalism, Racism, America in general.
♡´･ᴗ･`♡ hope things are going okay this Monday..
Who is your hero?
My dad
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
Oregon/ Washington state
What is your biggest fear?
Mom dying. Mom going into a bad nursing facility, not being able to pay bills, being homeless,
What was your favorite family vacation?
Mt. Rainier with my dad. Long Beach, WA.
My Aunt V's house with dad. Camping in Alpine AZ with dad .
What would you change about yourself if you could?
My fear of screwing up. Of being rejected.
My confidence.
What really makes you angry?
Rich people who are greedy, Capitalism, Racism, America in general.
Better late than never
Who is your hero?
Never understood well the concept of having a hero, I'm not sure what to say about that.
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
I like it Japan the most, from a variety of places I would like to live in.
What is your biggest fear?
I have to say I got better at confronting my fears, but public humilliation would be a huge one.
What was your favorite family vacation?
Oh, I like this one, it's when we went to the beach and I got a photo with an alpahaca.
What would you change about yourself if you could?
About things I can't, nothing comes to mind, but I'm trying to change some things.
What really makes you angry?
Bad scripting on T.V shows, I swear I just watch T.V to start complaining in front of it.
Who is your hero?
Never understood well the concept of having a hero, I'm not sure what to say about that.
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
I like it Japan the most, from a variety of places I would like to live in.
What is your biggest fear?
I have to say I got better at confronting my fears, but public humilliation would be a huge one.
What was your favorite family vacation?
Oh, I like this one, it's when we went to the beach and I got a photo with an alpahaca.
What would you change about yourself if you could?
About things I can't, nothing comes to mind, but I'm trying to change some things.
What really makes you angry?
Bad scripting on T.V shows, I swear I just watch T.V to start complaining in front of it.
- Who is your hero? Robert E. Lee if I had to pick just one. Although reviled as the most effective Confederate commander during the US Civil War, he both opposed secession and slavery. Lincoln's first choice for overall commander of all Union armies, he could not bear to unleash armies against his state. Back then most Americans identified their state as their country.
- If you could live anywhere, where would it be? Somewheres in the country. I am a small town/country boy and big cities are not for me.
- What is your biggest fear? Needles, but being diabetic, I have adapted.
- What was your favorite family vacation? Visiting various sites in my home state as a child especially seeing sites like the Alamo, most people would be surprised how small the thing is and how it is in the middle of a fairly large city....store, car lot, gas station, the Alamo, restaurant. LOL
- What would you change about yourself if you could? I would be less harsh towards others especially my attitude of "I can not abide useless people.". I have no patience for people who are frivolous or inconsistent.
- What really makes you angry? Harm to innocents, especially to children, harm to animals. I guess it is because with both they do expect and should be able to expect that others will do right by them.
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