Heyy everyone, omg! Thank you all soo much for replying here! Yesterday was quite a good day for me, after floundering kinda horribly for the last few days, I had a really great talk with a good friend who was definitely “there for me” in the best possible way so I am definitely feeling deeply grateful to that friend right now. I was kinda starting to “lose hope” about some things, so the kindness, caring and responsiveness they showed to me at a time when I needed that very much absolutely made all the difference in the world for me, big time 
Anyway between expressing my gratitude for that and then actually being a bit “busy” in the eve with some things, I had no chance to post anything here before now. I’m absolutely delighted with all the replies, and especially the ones who took the time to answer those questions I asked. Always wanting to do cafes/themes people will “like” and want to join in with, but it can be very hard to think of the “theme” ideas. Also didn’t ever want to be doing themes that people really didn’t like either lol, so again, there was absolutely a purpose with why I asked those ones. As for the b&w collage one, just hadn’t felt very sure if people would find that cool or interesting in any way or not. I’m really glad to see that they would, because it’s very easy to make any pic be in black and white lol. So next cafe I do, I will make the collage have all black and white pics in it
One last quick thing, I love that another person also said “spiders” for a theme they would never want to see, and also lol @Lisa the Goatgirl saying that about a “spider appreciation cafe” well hmm, there is only ONE way I might be able to handle such a theme as that - under NO circumstances would there be a single pic posted of one. Lol, the only ones that don’t freak me out quite so much are the ones with much thinner legs, other than that, omg no, one of the creepiest living things in this world. Sorry to any “spider lovers” out there but ya they just scare me silly as I said in my reply to the q’s post lol :p
Anyway between expressing my gratitude for that and then actually being a bit “busy” in the eve with some things, I had no chance to post anything here before now. I’m absolutely delighted with all the replies, and especially the ones who took the time to answer those questions I asked. Always wanting to do cafes/themes people will “like” and want to join in with, but it can be very hard to think of the “theme” ideas. Also didn’t ever want to be doing themes that people really didn’t like either lol, so again, there was absolutely a purpose with why I asked those ones. As for the b&w collage one, just hadn’t felt very sure if people would find that cool or interesting in any way or not. I’m really glad to see that they would, because it’s very easy to make any pic be in black and white lol. So next cafe I do, I will make the collage have all black and white pics in it

One last quick thing, I love that another person also said “spiders” for a theme they would never want to see, and also lol @Lisa the Goatgirl saying that about a “spider appreciation cafe” well hmm, there is only ONE way I might be able to handle such a theme as that - under NO circumstances would there be a single pic posted of one. Lol, the only ones that don’t freak me out quite so much are the ones with much thinner legs, other than that, omg no, one of the creepiest living things in this world. Sorry to any “spider lovers” out there but ya they just scare me silly as I said in my reply to the q’s post lol :p

