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Jim's Cafe Tuesday March 5 2024

MisterBGone

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#42
And by the way, @JMG that director I was talking about--the movie maker, he'd had this cool little laminated menu he could take/or pull out from his little like side restaurant styled seating booth or area, so that if you made something to be able to present to someone or just to have & to hold for yourself, that might be kind of neat too..;)
 

Baywasp

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#43
Thanks for the tag @Kiwi2016
I get very nervous about cooking but I want to learn to do it better. I am a bit more comfortable with baking, and have successfully made a few things from scratch, especially muffins. My biggest success was when I made a batch of pumpkin muffins for my friend who had just broken up with his longtime partner when I was living in California.

One time I tried to heat myself up a frozen burger patty on the stove. It didn’t burn, but the smoke alarm went off and I started panicking. My roommate (who worked and was trained as a cook) was sick in bed and slept through it but I woke him up. He helped me calm down and told me I should not have put extra oil in the pan because oil is already coming off the burger.

@PrincessPure is it a hostel you will be staying at? The hostels I’ve been to have all had some women-only dorms, but I’ve only been to a few hostels, so I can’t speak for all. It does seem like a good idea for them to have it.
 

Kiwi2016

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#46
To one and all,

My apologies....my new laptop arrived so spent yesterday in the joys of data migration etc. etc. Cannot believe how many of you all replied....so will now catch up with my replies. Feeling a tad guilty opened the doors and then left ... please no one take offense....
 

Kiwi2016

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#47
i have had many Many failures over the MANY MANY years. Too many to count. What i have learned is that i just need to laugh it off and remember what i did incorrectly so i learn from the mistake and don't do it again. Asking for feedback and allowing the constructive criticism is helpful as well.
The only advice i can give right now is to smell everything you put into cooking. Whether its spices or ingredients. Doing so will train your senses to recognize and combine them together. The astonishing part is the more you do this the more you will be able to know how the dish tastes before you sit down to eat it. You will also be able to know if something will teste good in the dish you add an ingredient/spice.

Ok so i have 1 more thing... DON'T be afraid to try new things. Some of the best dishes come from trying something new.

Aaaand it wouldn't be me if i didn't extend further... Something that helped boost my cooking ability was using a meal service. i used "Every Plate". The food was fresh and exactly what was needed, so no shopping. i was able to cancel at any time and had wonderful menus to choose from. They give you all the ingredients and the full recipe and directions. i learned loads about sauces and combinations.

i'm very passionate about cooking. Everyone needs to eat to live, so i love to feed people.
@AmberMarie what a great idea to smell the ingredients as you cook...admit that never even occured to me...yes clearly I have a very steep learning curve! And agree on trying new things...as sometimes you will be pleasantly surprised and other times perhaps not so much but still an experience irregardless--- lol! And as one who has been the beneficiary of those who love to cook (I used to buy the groceries for my friends)...believe me it is soooo appreciated!!!
 

Kiwi2016

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#48
I also live at approximately 6k feet above sea level. Getting baked goods to come out right is a bit of an experiment. The air pressure is lower and interestingly, water boils at a lower temperature. This means that making a meringue is going to be different than at sea level.

Getting yeast to rise is another matter. I worked at a bakery during high school, and we had a proof box that gave us control over the temperature, humidity and pressure so that raising yeast was pretty foolproof. Obviously this would be hard to do at home, so there are high altitude adjustments for recipes.

I don’t have the skill of working with yeast at home because I find it intimidating. I hear it’s possible though. The main adjustment is to add more salt than the recipe calls for. This will raise the boiling point, but there’s more that I don’t remember. I do like baking, because of the chemistry involved. Unfortunately that usually involves more sugar than I would like to eat, so it is a treat and I don’t get enough practice. I do make a great lemonade, though. :D
Yes have to admit am glad we are flatlanders as makes baking a possibility now...though miss the snow :(. And glad I'm not the only one who has a healthy respect for yeast...think too fact that no one in my family ever really cooked/baked may be part of my trepidation too...it's amazing what you learn without realizing it when you shadow someone cooking/baking. And yes now that we are starting to bake...there is the issue of consumption alas...lol....
 

Kiwi2016

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#49
This is why I eat everything plain! ;) Actually that's some wonderful advice & tips, @AmberMarie & @Astrid78 --I'd never heard of using smell to help instead of taste~ . . . So, that is really cool to know* (come to think of it, I'm not sure if I've ever even bought/en a "spice" usually don't even keep S&P). :D
And that way of cross referencing or categorizing and keeping track in order to make those connections sounds wise!
Cinnamon Cilli Cruch sounds AWESOME! ;) I love both of those things ~what? Could go wrong... & thatnks for your honeymoon story @Kiwi2016 - I did not konw that about cooking at elevation. But you sure did pour your heart & your soul into it, so I'm sure that was all that mattered to your partner! I would probably go out to eat in that situation, or hops & rpay that she likes ramen or macorani; spahgettio;s or frozen pisa~* :) becauwe those things, I hate or hesitate to call them, "dishes" are wwhat i have become masterful at/or with i nlfie! :D
Thanks for the words of support...he was quite gracious at the time I will give him that but did graciously decline future attempts. And no apologies those three things definitely count as dishes...I could add my one pot dinner from my grad school days -- refried beans, onion, Monterey jack cheese with tortilla's ... so got 4 food groups :) And still one of my fav things for lunch....lol.
 

Kiwi2016

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#50
Kiwi, what do you like to eat? Are you big meat eaters? Do you like pasta? Rice based dishes? Soups?
What dishes do you know already that you are comfortable cooking?

Can your husband teach you any of some of yall's favorite dishes if you have them?

It's a big topic.....I have many cookbooks but I still go online to get recipes and see that many sites have short videos with step by step preparation instruction that I like to watch sometimes if I don't know the recipe.

As far as a roast, don't give up....they really are easy once you get the hang. Direction depends on the kind of roast you buy but most all of them start with a dry rub of a mix of spices, even just salt and pepper and garlic powder and/or onion powder if you like. Then sometimes I either brown it on both sides in a little oil on the stove and then put in a baking pan in the oven at LOW temperature (300 usually) and walk away from it for several HOURS. Or just skip the browning step and start it in the oven. Some roasts or beef will get tender the longer you cook them. Like brisket or ribs. If you want an actual roast beef then that needs to be cooked differently.

For baking, I don't know what else you've tried before, if never then try simple first...Like making a banana bread....baking is normally something that depends upon good measurements of the ingredients being used.

I have made a mess of many many things I've cooked over the years and when I do I just throw it out or feed it to the dogs, lol. And then try it again if I want to.

What an adventure for you!

P.S. Just curious, is 6300 the altitude you lived at?:)
@Livelife I love everything...I think the only things I would never try again as far as eating is fried tripe and natto sushi-- both memorable!

Yes we are experimenting with a slow cooker too...so will be trying roasts in that first as can go all day.

We actually bought a scale and have to say it is amazing to use for measuring out prepared doughs... and after our rather odd texture peanut butter cookies am going to start to use it to weigh ingredients when baking....

It is an adventure and lots of fun especially as I am retired so can actually enjoy it and also am creating computerized cookbooks for air fryer, slow cooker, and oven.

Yes we lived at 6300' for 20 years...a commute one way of 56 miles... after 50 shoveling snow by moonlight does lose it's appeal...but oh do so miss it....
 

MisterBGone

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#51
Thanks for the words of support...he was quite gracious at the time I will give him that but did graciously decline future attempts. And no apologies those three things definitely count as dishes...I could add my one pot dinner from my grad school days -- refried beans, onion, Monterey jack cheese with tortilla's ... so got 4 food groups :) And still one of my fav things for lunch....lol.
Well, glad to hear he was so generous of your efforts! ; ) And you were in grad school, so I think your culinary arts side could wait a bit. Though I will say, you've exercised great patience! : D However, not as though it was needed or had to be done out of necessity~ & you do have GREAT TASTE: *Drool..;)
-nice man, you've got there! And I was reading it (the replies/posts) backwards, hence they (if) made even less sense than usual (or normal)! :D Hahaha...
 

Kiwi2016

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#52
I can tell you what I've had, but I don't know about the recipe lol... Although, he's something easy. Nachos. Use a bag of tortilla chips and spread them out in a baking pan, spread some cooked beef chili on top, extra cheese, and any other toppings of choice. After it bakes, I'd probably do sour cream, lettuce, tomato. and viola! Done.
@Aurelia my kind of recipe!!!!
 

Kiwi2016

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#53
I admit I used to experiment and create new dishes and I thought they were good meals but when the divorce came it was admitted that they-my ex and kid- didn’t like most of them. So I had a few years that I didn’t really cook but in later years I had to learn to cook for a healthier lifestyle. Since I live by myself I can now experiment. I’m even baking for my vegan friends cookies and such which is really hard because no eggs butter or cow milk. I cook with vegan ingredients and sometimes the food is not tasty to my taste but my friends gobble up whatever I make. So I feel better.
I admire anyone who can cook vegan! That's for the future attempts once manage the 3 things on a plate--main, starch, veggie :)
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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#54
Try not to feel too bad if you mess something up. I've probably been cooking about 15 years, and don't do it too often, but I do it well enough. Though sometimes things will still not turn out the way I want them to (soggy grilled cheese, watery grits) so it's really kind of trial and error I think.
 

Kiwi2016

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#55
The one piece in my kitchen I use most is my crockpot slow cooker, because there are so many recipes that are almost no-fail -
Soups, chili, casseroles, I guess comfort food, but that's some of what I like

And I like my bread machine, too
I've found recipes for banana bread and a ricotta cheese bread, that I like
I usually make a loaf of each weekly

I'm not a healthy cook, I use real butter, plenty of sugar and salt, too
Nothing in moderation

peace
:)
Yes I admit I love the slow cooker...the hard part is getting it going so done when you want to eat and not at 9pm. I will have to look for ricotta cheese bread and put that on the list to try. And fully agree with you on nothing in moderation --- all the butter, sugar, whole milk etc. etc.
 

Kiwi2016

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#56
Ah, it was a fine day. I finally restarted studying after my exams were over. There is an exam upcoming in a month-ish. My cold is still there but at least I have no more fever, and I am excited about my short trip to Milan in 10 days.

The thing about these short student trips is, idk how to put it. They are kinda uncomfortable. I get my flights from Ryan Air, so I usually cant take more than a backpack. Even if I did, i cant carry a luggage. Its so weird sleeping in a room where everyone is a guy but me. I hope it doesnt happen again. At least last time my guy friend was there and had his eye on me, helped me with carrying my backpack and everything. This time im alone. But still, I am glad I get to see many places on a student budget. It is one of the blessings the European Union has offered me. Which I didnt have before moving here.
So glad that your cold is improving and take it easy studying as you've got time. I remember taking short trips when was in Europe in school and do so miss the ability to literally just hop on a train be in a different country and stay at a youth hostel...some better than others as you've said. Have a wonderful time in Milan :)
 

Kiwi2016

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#57
Hello everyone,
Theres a cooking show called STRUGGLE MEALS On the Tastemade Network. Everything’s on YouTube too. But he cracks me up, he has a packet drawer. He uses it for flavor. Entertaining, yet simple concepts.
Then there’s me. I started to clean & organize my out of control spice area. It’s expanded a lot since I have started drying some of the spices I grow.
I usually buy a side of beef, keep it in a deep freeze. One time I decided that cube steaks would be a great thing for my tween aged kids to master making. Let’s just say they don’t eat cube steak anymore. 😂🤣
I think making enough food for multiple meals is a time saver. I often put leftovers in single serving containers. Easy to reheat. Easy to store in the freezer for another day.
I don’t think of cooking/baking as separate things, but it makes sense.

fun cafe! Thanks! Good to see everyone ❤️
Oh now I will have to look to see if Struggle Meals is streaming somewhere...that sounds right up my alley as had a friend who watched that English one as well as others and they were fun...but those people were serious cooks and building phenomenal cakes etc. etc.

That is so funny that you mention cube steak as we just found a slow cooker recipe so may give it a try...now second guessing that decision.

Yes we've started to do the freezer bag thing...it is great have to admit and as there is only the two of us far better than eating day after day after day the same thing....
 

Kiwi2016

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#60
Oh? I've done that MANY TIMES BEFORE: (mostly, while in college). . . so, proof positive folks; you won't start a fire. Smokey can even promise you of that~ ;)
Oh yes...have done the same thing...and one pizza that was really horrid...couldn't tell which was top and which was bottom so cooked upside down...at least had sense to put on baking tray...loll
 

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