let's hope it does not come in 3's

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by normaljoe, Jun 30, 2014.

  1. normaljoe

    normaljoe Well-Known Member

    two of my friends have committed suicide in the past two months. the most recent one, I was particularly close too. I never expected it from him. as most people don't. I blame myself for leaving the ship. I would have been there. It should have been me.
  2. Perfect Melancholy

    Perfect Melancholy SF Friend

    I'm really sorry for your loss, truly I am. I know all you can do right now is blame yourself and that's the worse part trying to come to terms of what if I had done this, but please be gentle on yourself. I know from how I have pushed people away not allowed them to be there for me, isolating myself. That sometimes there is not a lot you could of done and that is the hardest thing to accept. :(

    If you need to vent or just someone to talk to please feel free to PM me.

    Take care