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Loneliness is literally killing me...
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A lot of people with autism are very smart, so maybe that explains why she makes so much money. She could also be lying about how much she makes.
It's also possible that you'd like each other, and so maybe if you became a couple you'd be able to afford a home together
It's also possible that you'd like each other, and so maybe if you became a couple you'd be able to afford a home together
We are talking, but we dont seem to be on the same plane, since Im always replying fast but she never does that, its like sending a telegram... At least she replies with some effort...
I still think this will probably go bad, from what I know about her... Or maybe end up as friends, but not a couple...
I will always live in this shit apartment. The other day I was crying when I was going back to it... I left to go do some errands and the neighbour was talking loudly in the balcony and can be heard in all my apartment. For weeks she has been doing that, all day, no stop, from morning to late night... I left and she was talking loudly, and I returned and she still was... I dont even have money to buy the other half of the apartment from my sister's... And when i can finally buy it, Ill have to save for years again to buy another one and finally get free from this shit... But whatever I get to buy, it will just be not totally shit, it wont be a nice home like I want, because those are extremely expensive... And all of t his while I have this shit car... Im pathetic... I can get nothing...
https://www.suicideforum.com/community/threads/a-crazy-girl-is-harassing-me.183084/
See, its too good to be true...
See, its too good to be true...
idk how but suddenly 2 nice girls talked to me in reddit. i checked her accounts and were years old, so no deception... but after 1 day talking, both rejected me...
and now my fucking sister is trying to sue me to get money for some bullshit. its very probable that she wont get shit, but it still makes me very anxious having to be in a trial and pay lawyers and even if she loses she doesnt have to pay anything cause she has no money
tomorrow im gonna make a will and leave whatever little i have to my aunt... been thinking it for years but never gave the step... but this is was the last straw
i should just die already... nobody wants me...
and now my fucking sister is trying to sue me to get money for some bullshit. its very probable that she wont get shit, but it still makes me very anxious having to be in a trial and pay lawyers and even if she loses she doesnt have to pay anything cause she has no money
tomorrow im gonna make a will and leave whatever little i have to my aunt... been thinking it for years but never gave the step... but this is was the last straw
i should just die already... nobody wants me...
I didn't mean it like that @painfully. I meant in the sense that women have to be very careful online because there are predators out there. Ive experienced it myself, even on here. Not that you are one, of course!
Also, I noticed you focus on women who seem to have alot of problems who might not be in the best state of mind to form and sustain a good relationship
What do you mean about not having any chances in real life?
Also, I noticed you focus on women who seem to have alot of problems who might not be in the best state of mind to form and sustain a good relationship
What do you mean about not having any chances in real life?
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I focus on women who might understand me. Normal people are allergic to any kind of problems. Sometimes in the past I forgot, tried to talk to a normal girl, and its like, it was a whole different world... She 100% didnt want anything to do with any problem...
In real life i dont have any chances. I dont like to go out, i dont have interests. I wouldnt even know where to go... And to be honest, It feels kinda pointless joining a group hoping to find a partner...
Still, I tried. i went to an autism association. There was 1 girl who caught my interest but she didnt want anything to do with me... So I stopped going... And yesterday I went to a new group of mentally ill people and it was around 10 people, but all very old, in their 60s and more... And these are the only 2 I found. The others are mainly for kids with autism or similar... Idk what else to do...
In real life i dont have any chances. I dont like to go out, i dont have interests. I wouldnt even know where to go... And to be honest, It feels kinda pointless joining a group hoping to find a partner...
Still, I tried. i went to an autism association. There was 1 girl who caught my interest but she didnt want anything to do with me... So I stopped going... And yesterday I went to a new group of mentally ill people and it was around 10 people, but all very old, in their 60s and more... And these are the only 2 I found. The others are mainly for kids with autism or similar... Idk what else to do...
They might understand you but that doesn't mean they are in the right state of mind to form a lasting relationship. I noticed that one of them you talked to said she wanted to cuddle with you after only talking online for 5 days, and then disappeared .That struck me as strange. She probably wasn't looking for a serious relationship in the first place, and just said she wanted to cuddle thinking she was being kind. Women do that sort of thing unfortunately, giving guys a false green light when they think they are just being friendly or polite.
Well you're kind of shooting yourself in the foot at the starting line. Lots of people meet their partners through shared interests. It allows a relationship to evolve naturally, Without pressure, through establishing a friendship to start with. . Without shared interests what on earth can two people talk about without becoming dissatisfied? You surely must be interested in something?
Well you're kind of shooting yourself in the foot at the starting line. Lots of people meet their partners through shared interests. It allows a relationship to evolve naturally, Without pressure, through establishing a friendship to start with. . Without shared interests what on earth can two people talk about without becoming dissatisfied? You surely must be interested in something?
That girl you are talking about, I think it was the norway one, wanted a relationship with me too.... But then disappeared cause her parents took her phone and I also suspect that her friend from school was trying to get together with her... I might have happened while she was without the phone
About interests. Men and women have fundamentally different interests. For example, almost no guy is going to meet a girl through football, or basketball or rpg games. Im not shooting myself in the foot cause that implies im choosing something. I didnt chose to have no interests or needing someone this much...
About interests. Men and women have fundamentally different interests. For example, almost no guy is going to meet a girl through football, or basketball or rpg games. Im not shooting myself in the foot cause that implies im choosing something. I didnt chose to have no interests or needing someone this much...
I haven't known many guys ever who were into those things, though they are mainly male interests I suppose. There are other sports though that both men and women enjoy, and lots of other activities which aren't gender specific . Joining a political party or interest group is a good way to meet both male and female friends, for instance.
Doesn't anything appeal to you at all that you might like to try? I've always wanted to learn photography for instance, or cookery, but there are literally too many possible interests and pastimes to mention here , some of which might appeal to you and be a good way to meet other people, not just potential girlfriends .
Doesn't anything appeal to you at all that you might like to try? I've always wanted to learn photography for instance, or cookery, but there are literally too many possible interests and pastimes to mention here , some of which might appeal to you and be a good way to meet other people, not just potential girlfriends .
It seems like you think of a boyfriend like someone who has to be entertaining you, and if you are bored then its his fault...
I talk about me and my life and about her and her life to see if we are compatible. Most girls leave me cause im weak and insecure and leave me cause of that...
And if a relationship formed, i wouldnt want to talk about hobbies or stuff, id just want the company. If there is something to talk ok, if not, ok too.
I talk about me and my life and about her and her life to see if we are compatible. Most girls leave me cause im weak and insecure and leave me cause of that...
And if a relationship formed, i wouldnt want to talk about hobbies or stuff, id just want the company. If there is something to talk ok, if not, ok too.
Not at all. I can entertain myself . I just meant that i don't think a long term relationship can be sustained without having mutually interesting things to talk about.
I don't think it's weak to want a special relationship with someone. That's natural, but maybe your way of going about it plus the kind of women you engage with is something to do with your lack of success ? Just my opinion of course and you are free to discard it.
I don't think it's weak to want a special relationship with someone. That's natural, but maybe your way of going about it plus the kind of women you engage with is something to do with your lack of success ? Just my opinion of course and you are free to discard it.
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I engaged with enough women to know its not about the kind of woman. As I said, normal ones are allergic to ill people. And I talked toa lot of women, some more ill, some less ill... For example, the 2 ones that rejected me lately were just introverts without nothing else... But they didnt want me cause Im too sad and weak and desperate...
Nobody wants me and i cant take this pain...
Nobody wants me and i cant take this pain...