Losing Friends fast

[3dogmom]

My mental and emotional state really deteriorated in the past month. It all came to a head and I am on my way back to being healthy.

Seems as though I have chased all my friends away. I call, but they don't return my calls.

I feel so lonely. I am trying to finally get my act together and I guess I have to start completely over as my friends have lost faith in me.

Anyone have any advice?

 

[Lead Savior]

If they knew you were struggling and then distanced themselves as a result, then they weren't pals I must say.

If you were the one who detached yourself from them, keep putting forth effort to reach out. All the while, put your own mental well-being first. Once that comes along, everything else will fall into place in its own time.

 

[FoundAndLost1]

First - welcome...
Second - I'm glad you're feeling better!
Third - it's a sad reality (I know from my own experience) that there are a lot of folks who cannot acknowledge, let alone be truly (and effectively) supportive of someone going through very unique and personal difficulties. They may not be able to understand - or just as well, may not be willing to look at "the dark side" of your experiences...

You may keep trying, and indeed some may be willing to re-enter your life - but know that in your trying, you're doing this with an 'openness' and sincerity that others may not be able to relate to... And don't let this stop you/hinder you from seeking out new supports and friendships. Our lives follow and change many paths...(I hope that doesn't sound trite! It's not meant to be...)