Losing my wife of 20+ years

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by Valerie52, Jun 17, 2016.

  1. Valerie52

    Valerie52 New Member

    We've been through the good, bad, ugly and uglier. I've really lost my ability to feel useful anymore. She's sleeping upstairs and I'm downstairs. I feel lost and alone and in a really dark place. I really need help.
  2. outlander

    outlander Banned Member

    Sorry to hear this. Would she o to some kind of counselling with you? Hope things get better.
  3. JAL

    JAL Member

    Know exactly how you feel mate. My wife decided to leave me after 24 years. Im sleeping on the floor downstairs at mo. Just got the devorce papers through the post this morning which really upset me. I know how tough it is.
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  4. Valerie52

    Valerie52 New Member

    We have started counseling but I don't hold much hope. She doesn't seem to want to share her feelings.
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  5. Randomness

    Randomness Active Member

    Do you feel that there is an "invisible" person in the mix?
    (I'm so sorry you're going through this.)