Lost without my wife

[anona123]

Hello everyone.
You may remember some post`s ago, i asked if anyone could find me a passage from the Bible. It was called "Broken Chains". My Debbie answered that for me.
As some of you know, i have two memorial tables outside my apartment door so that i can talk and be with her, as i am unable to get to her resting place at the cemetery. There is an angel sat on one of the tables and i was sat down talking with her, when i noticed the writing on the angel. It reads:

Broken Chains.
We little knew the day God was going to call your name,
In life, we loved you dearly, in death we do the same,
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us, one by one,
The chains will link again.

This verse at her service brought me to my knees, and now, once again, my tears are falling. I am not ashamed to say or do this, as many of you said, it`s natural at any age.

The only thing i wish i could understand, and i think I've said this before, why does God put people together, but they don`t get to share old age together? My Debbie was 55 and i was 65 so she would be 57 now. He took her away from me, but the reason for it, i cannot understand. Dare i say this without suffering any wrath from God, why is he that mean? Maybe someone can tell me and make me understand.

I’m glad you found that text about the broken chains. It’s a nice thought. Putting the chains back together.
as for why? I wish we knew. For her to be taken at that age seems so cruel. Moreso that your own life has been so harmed by this. It’s almost as is both were taken. Our lives can be so destroyed by things external to us.
I’m so sorry for what has happened to you. This world makes little sense.

 

[KM76710]

I would like to ask how do you p.m someone on here?
Thank you in advance.

I have always hovered the mouse over the person's ID displaying on the left and it will drop down some information on the member along with box options to Follow, Ignore and Start Conversation. Just click on the Start Conversation and type your message and submit. When someone comes on there with be a notification alert on their Inbox and go from there with messaging.

 

[SkyTree]

Hello everyone.
You may remember some post`s ago, i asked if anyone could find me a passage from the Bible. It was called "Broken Chains". My Debbie answered that for me.
As some of you know, i have two memorial tables outside my apartment door so that i can talk and be with her, as i am unable to get to her resting place at the cemetery. There is an angel sat on one of the tables and i was sat down talking with her, when i noticed the writing on the angel. It reads:

Broken Chains.
We little knew the day God was going to call your name,
In life, we loved you dearly, in death we do the same,
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us, one by one,
The chains will link again.

This verse at her service brought me to my knees, and now, once again, my tears are falling. I am not ashamed to say or do this, as many of you said, it`s natural at any age.

The only thing i wish i could understand, and i think I've said this before, why does God put people together, but they don`t get to share old age together? My Debbie was 55 and i was 65 so she would be 57 now. He took her away from me, but the reason for it, i cannot understand. Dare i say this without suffering any wrath from God, why is he that mean? Maybe someone can tell me and make me understand.

I don't know all the reasons why God allows separation (and He doesn't give us all the reasons for anything because again He wants us to trust Him; He knows this will lift so much burden from us), but I think one reason at least for me has been to truly perfect my love for her. I loved her so completely when she was here, but looking at my love for her now, after all my suffering I actually feel I love her infinitely more now! Think about your love for your wife when she was alive and your love for her now. Do you notice an increase? If you do, that could be one major reason for why this all happened!