My Daughter

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by alle_vite, Dec 29, 2012.

  1. alle_vite

    alle_vite Well-Known Member

    well its that day of the year again the one day i cant comprehend life or anything at all, no parent should ever out live there child and the pain that it leaves behind is unbearable.even painting the smile on my face for the other 364 days of the year is hard enough...... i have no words so this passage may explain it better. Happy birthday princess xxxxxxxxxx
    i wear a pair of shoes,They are ugly shoes,Uncomfortable shoes,I hate my shoes! Each day I wear them and each day I wish I had another pair.
    Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step, Yet, I continue to wear them
    I get funny looks wearing these shoes! They are looks of sympathy.I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not theirs! They never talk about my shoes To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable.To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them.But, once you put them on, you can never take them off.I now realise I am not the only one who wears these shoes.There are many pairs in this world.Some women are like me and ache daily as they try and walk in them.Some have learned how to walk in them so they don't hurt quite as much.Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think about how much they hurt,No woman deserves to wear these shoes! They have made me who I am.I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child ♥ RIP Alicia princess mammy loves you millions I hope you have a super extra special 6th birthday in the clouds ♥
     
  2. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    Hugs to you no one should ever have to lose a child hun your passage it says so much hun hugs
     
  3. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    Thinking of you especially today. Words cannot describe how out feels to lose a child. I am so sorry you have to know that pain. In the spring I will plant a tree in angel park in memory of your daughter. :hug:
     
  4. Bubble

    Bubble Well-Known Member

    as a mother myself I feel I can empathise, it takes a strong woman to survive the loss of a child & look what you're doing! I lost my partner to suicide in 2008 & while I have rebuilt my family there is still a hole in my heart where he is dearly missed. It gets worse before it gets better but keep pushing on because I promise it gets better, you see more clearly & you find that life is still beautiful. After the rain comes a rainbow you just have to look through the clouds.