sorry for your husbnds and familys loss.
my nana died just when my breakdown started and also my wifes gran died in the same month. so lets say work ( who were bullying ) drove me nuts.
family comes first and let you and your husband take time to properly grieve.
dont rush about the country with grief. take your time and share with your extended family.
it can be a very weakening event. i still think that while i was grieving and work tried it on set the fire to my breakdown. i just kicked off.
so look after each other.
im so sorry and i know how you both must feel.
if you or your husband need support of any kind at any time we are always good in chat.
take care.