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not another close friend

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by rabitt3434, Sep 28, 2017.

  1. rabitt3434

    rabitt3434 SF Supporter

    I dont know. I cant believe another friend is gone. Just as group was about to start tonight I got a message that a very close and dear friend that I was on dialysis with passed away. Im still just so numb. Why? I dont even know what to say or what to do. All I can do is sit here and cry. I cant believe he is gone. I just feel like things are piling up again and i dont know what to do. I just cant believe he is gone. He was such a good friend. I dont knwo.
     
  2. SillyOldBear

    SillyOldBear Teddy Bear Fanatic Staff Alumni

    I am so sorry for your loss. I am 65 and have reached the age when death is pretty common. That doesn't make it any less painful though. Nor does the thought that another friend's suffering on this old earth is over really help. Death just defies logic. We all know it will happen to us, and our friends. And I don't think any of us would really want to live forever. I just try and think of all those who have passed fondly. As long as I think of them, they really are still a part of my life, and live through me. Your friend will always be alive in you!
     
  3. rabitt3434

    rabitt3434 SF Supporter

    yes that he will for sure be. Thank you
     
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  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I'm deeply sorry for your loss. May your friend rest in peace.
     
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  5. rabitt3434

    rabitt3434 SF Supporter

    Thank you hun
     
  6. sassy123

    sassy123 SF hugger Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

  7. rabitt3434

    rabitt3434 SF Supporter

    Thank you right now more things have happened and I'm just so crushed. Holding back tears until I get home. Don't know if I can take anymore
     
  8. Ania

    Ania Well-Known Member

    Im so sorry rabitt *hugs
     
  9. rabitt3434

    rabitt3434 SF Supporter

    Thanks hun
     
  10. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Sending you more warm hugs, I hope today has been a little brighter for you. Know we care.
     
  11. Brian777

    Brian777 Safety and Support SF Artist SF Supporter

    So sorry for your loss rabbit :( I know how it feels, I've lost a lot of family and friends and it doesn't get any easier.
    Take care of yourself, grieve and give yourself time.
     
  12. JacsMom

    JacsMom Staff Alumni

    My little wabitt....I'm so sorry for your pain. Grieving is never easy. The one thing I can say to you though is, that grief you feel is exponential to the love you have for your friend. I'm glad you had a friend you loved so much that you miss him. It never gets easier to lose someone, but you will learn to live without him and one day you'll be able to think of him and smile at the memories you made with him.
     
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  13. Kiwi2016

    Kiwi2016 Forum Pro

    I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. I hope that fond memories fill your heart mind and soul as he then will always be with you.
     
  14. Walker

    Walker Everything Zen Staff Member Safety & Support SF Social Media SF Supporter

    {{{hugs}}} Sorry about your friend. I hope you're doing ok.

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  15. rabitt3434

    rabitt3434 SF Supporter

    Hugs thanks hun
     
  16. rabitt3434

    rabitt3434 SF Supporter

    Thank you
     
  17. rabitt3434

    rabitt3434 SF Supporter

    Thank you for these.