Sorry to hear that you're feeling that crushing pain again today. I think what HumanEx is saying up top there about what your gf would want is like, if the roles were reversed - how would you want your gf to be right now? Have you considered that in a realistic point of view? Not that it's easy to just shed your feelings or anything, I'm not saying that at all but would you want her to not laugh, not be supported by people who love her, not go out with friends or to be in the house crying all the time? No one wants that for people they love and I'm sure she loved and cared for you and wouldn't want that for you either. There's not martyrdom in grieving longer or feeling more shit than the next guy. You are allowed to move on when the time is right for you - whenever that is for you. Keep talking ok? Go to chat if you need to talk right away but talk to someone. We're all here listening.