Officially turned down.

[robynhood]

Hi

I officially got turned down from the job I really wanted. I was expecting that after a week from not hearing back, but I’m affected more than I had guessed. I can’t stop thinking about it. There were so many things I could have done in preparation.

I think my biggest flaw is that I don’t have anyone to guide me through the real world. I could have practiced and gotten feedback, but I didn’t have the opportunity. I probably never will and there is nothing I can do about it. I spent the entire weekend practicing my lines and learning about the company, but interviews are a lot more than that.

I know that I am young and there will be many opportunities for me, I just feel like I let this one slip through my fingers. I should have harassed people to help me, but I didn’t want to feel like a burden. Next time I will be a burden and won’t give a fuck.

 

[may71]

Sorry to hear that didn't get the job offer

 

[Alwayswrong]

Hi! @robynhood! First of all, it's only natural to feel down after a lost opportunity. Also, asking for help should never bother anybody, because it shows your willing to do it the best you can. And a last thing: you can always learn from this experience. When a cat loses a prey, it doesn't sit down and feel sorry for himself; it just goes in search of another prey.

 

[SillyOldBear]

@robynhood Robyn, I think you said you lived in the U.S. of A. Try talking to your local employment security office. They can provide help with interview techniques, including practice interviews with feedback. They have helped me a lot.

Most importantly, don't ever give up. You may have to work in a job you really don't want for a while, but if you keep at it, you will land the job you want.