Lots of people who have depression have trouble with sleep, I'm no exception.
Sometimes I would have a regular sleep, I'm not sleep deprived at all, but some event puts me in a depressive state, such as being rejected, or being yelled at by my boss. When that happens I usually eat unhealthy stuff, which adds to my weight and makes me feel even worse for giving in to the craving of chocolate, or whatever it was that I binged to feel better. Usually I feel so bad that the only solution is to take a nap. I usually don't wake up whistling of joy but a little refreshed, sometimes less anxious.
When I lived with my parents I wanted to sleep and never wake up. I hated mornings, having to wake up and see my parents in the kitchen, being a failure for having no job or career. Sometimes I would stay in bed and force myself to sleep until noon just so I wouldn't have to see anyone when I wake up, or I wait a little later when chances are people left the house.
The reason of this post, is that I was thinking about this and it dawned on me... Last week I was feeling bad and insecure, self-loathing and blaming myself for things I didn't do wrong. I was depressed but I more of like let people depress me. I didn't stand my ground. Sometimes this is enough to let me in a spiral of depression.
Then my eyelids felt heavy and I thought of going to sleep even though it was a holiday and I had plenty of sleep. And I thought: "not this time". I forced myself to do some chores, fixed the motorbike and even went for a walk not in the mood. By the end of the day I felt better and I went to sleep a little happy.
My point... If you have, say 5 problems that are putting you down, going to sleep will give time to the problems to either remain the same state as they were, or sometimes problems gets worse if you wait -- think of not talking to someone after a discussion.
I propose here to myself, and to others struggling with depression, do not go to sleep if you do not feel sleepy. Do not use it to "cure" your depression because often times, you are depressed by a very real reasons, for example, someone yelled at you. And the fact that someone yelled at you will still be true when you wake up, even though you can sleep and dream that you were a king and people were bowing and paying respects, when you wake up you're still on that same position --- being yelled at and having to deal with it.
Only sleep to rest and recover energy, not to deal with stuff you should pay attention and fix. That's the message I wanted to convey.
OBS: I'm not a doctor, take what you want from this, this post is more to share a perspective than to shame people for sleeping I hope you get the point.
Sometimes I would have a regular sleep, I'm not sleep deprived at all, but some event puts me in a depressive state, such as being rejected, or being yelled at by my boss. When that happens I usually eat unhealthy stuff, which adds to my weight and makes me feel even worse for giving in to the craving of chocolate, or whatever it was that I binged to feel better. Usually I feel so bad that the only solution is to take a nap. I usually don't wake up whistling of joy but a little refreshed, sometimes less anxious.
When I lived with my parents I wanted to sleep and never wake up. I hated mornings, having to wake up and see my parents in the kitchen, being a failure for having no job or career. Sometimes I would stay in bed and force myself to sleep until noon just so I wouldn't have to see anyone when I wake up, or I wait a little later when chances are people left the house.
The reason of this post, is that I was thinking about this and it dawned on me... Last week I was feeling bad and insecure, self-loathing and blaming myself for things I didn't do wrong. I was depressed but I more of like let people depress me. I didn't stand my ground. Sometimes this is enough to let me in a spiral of depression.
Then my eyelids felt heavy and I thought of going to sleep even though it was a holiday and I had plenty of sleep. And I thought: "not this time". I forced myself to do some chores, fixed the motorbike and even went for a walk not in the mood. By the end of the day I felt better and I went to sleep a little happy.
My point... If you have, say 5 problems that are putting you down, going to sleep will give time to the problems to either remain the same state as they were, or sometimes problems gets worse if you wait -- think of not talking to someone after a discussion.
I propose here to myself, and to others struggling with depression, do not go to sleep if you do not feel sleepy. Do not use it to "cure" your depression because often times, you are depressed by a very real reasons, for example, someone yelled at you. And the fact that someone yelled at you will still be true when you wake up, even though you can sleep and dream that you were a king and people were bowing and paying respects, when you wake up you're still on that same position --- being yelled at and having to deal with it.
Only sleep to rest and recover energy, not to deal with stuff you should pay attention and fix. That's the message I wanted to convey.
OBS: I'm not a doctor, take what you want from this, this post is more to share a perspective than to shame people for sleeping I hope you get the point.