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how we have to keep fighting to get better. we have to fight if we believe in god so we don't commit sin, we have to fight for our family, we have to not give up with our health care team. we have to live for others when it would be so easy to just give up and go home. i'm not talking suicide just giving up and going home to avoid pain and suffering.
mike
mike
My older brother is in the hospital and will be needing kidney dialysis twice a week.
Suddenly my family is gathering and preaching how my older brother can’t suffer any stress
and then i answered, weren’t you all the same type of people who gave him so much stress for the past decade which lead him to this situation? wow, you need to be hospitalized and be halfway to death before people can start treating you right.
And now I have to also shoulder responsibilities that shouldn’t have been stressful if they only chose to use my advice but no, they want the traditional, harder, and tedious way, well then good luck dying from stress.
i hate this family, so two-faced.
Suddenly my family is gathering and preaching how my older brother can’t suffer any stress
and then i answered, weren’t you all the same type of people who gave him so much stress for the past decade which lead him to this situation? wow, you need to be hospitalized and be halfway to death before people can start treating you right.
And now I have to also shoulder responsibilities that shouldn’t have been stressful if they only chose to use my advice but no, they want the traditional, harder, and tedious way, well then good luck dying from stress.
i hate this family, so two-faced.
There’s a lot going on in my life. My cat with ckd is not drinking enough and not eating at all, I can’t afford to have her confined for who knows how long and then be discharged and her health declines again and it’s a recurring process that financially I can’t afford it.
I am force feeding her water, blended food, and medicine. I feel she wants to live, and it breaks my heart having to go through this every single day seeing her week and in pain. I don’t want to give up on her but it has crossed my mind if considering euthanasia is giving up on her or keeping her like this is torture to her.
Realistically, with my older brother needing help with his dialysis, having more responsibilities in the family. Needing to go to school for long hours. Take care of my five cats and make sure that my sick cat is tended to her needs which is 24/7, i honestly dont think this is possible for long term.
It is weird how my vet just openly said that I need other people to take care of her, I live on my own, no one in my family approves of my cats, if I die they will throw them out, what more will they do with my sick cat, i feel the vet was inconsiderate, tactless, and selfish. I felt cornered and pushed to the edge like I’m a bad cat parent like I never tried. I am not as privileged like other people that has someone with them to share the responsibility.
I am force feeding her water, blended food, and medicine. I feel she wants to live, and it breaks my heart having to go through this every single day seeing her week and in pain. I don’t want to give up on her but it has crossed my mind if considering euthanasia is giving up on her or keeping her like this is torture to her.
Realistically, with my older brother needing help with his dialysis, having more responsibilities in the family. Needing to go to school for long hours. Take care of my five cats and make sure that my sick cat is tended to her needs which is 24/7, i honestly dont think this is possible for long term.
It is weird how my vet just openly said that I need other people to take care of her, I live on my own, no one in my family approves of my cats, if I die they will throw them out, what more will they do with my sick cat, i feel the vet was inconsiderate, tactless, and selfish. I felt cornered and pushed to the edge like I’m a bad cat parent like I never tried. I am not as privileged like other people that has someone with them to share the responsibility.
Just wanted to say I’ve read what everyone has written in the last 11 posts (posts on this page - page 480) and I’m sorry for all the stress, worries and struggles everyone is going through. Every member here is so strong so I just wanted to make sure you knew that there is someone here who cares, even if there isn’t much I can “do” to help. Lots of big hugs to those who want them 
Things are a bit stressful for me right now in various ways. Mostly it is just a lot of uncertainty about the future, and about what an event that will be happening next year will mean for my own resources. They are already extremely limited, and that happening will make them even less so. So it’s hard not to worry about what that is truly going to mean.
Trying to stay positive and hopeful about things right now but it is hard. Maybe that happening will just mean I won’t end up being around as long due to stress and worry, who knows.
Things are a bit stressful for me right now in various ways. Mostly it is just a lot of uncertainty about the future, and about what an event that will be happening next year will mean for my own resources. They are already extremely limited, and that happening will make them even less so. So it’s hard not to worry about what that is truly going to mean.
Trying to stay positive and hopeful about things right now but it is hard. Maybe that happening will just mean I won’t end up being around as long due to stress and worry, who knows.
In no particular order of importance:
When people swagger in thinking they know better how jobs should be done, then leaving it all to me to deal with offering nothing but belittlement, stating the fucking obvious, and piss-ended criticism.
Individuals not keeping to their word or failing to meet their obligations. Then when they are called out over it the excuses the offer are nothing but rancid bollocks.
Even though in instances where I may be a middleman or a conduit, when someone else has fucked up you can bet your arse that I'm the one seen as the big bad c##t that's solely responsible and so shot down, kicked, and torched to fuckery as a consequence.
Right now, I'm bolloxed up to the eyeballs with this ciarnival of shite and if one more fucker piles on, I'll torch the whole damn fucking circus.
When people swagger in thinking they know better how jobs should be done, then leaving it all to me to deal with offering nothing but belittlement, stating the fucking obvious, and piss-ended criticism.
Individuals not keeping to their word or failing to meet their obligations. Then when they are called out over it the excuses the offer are nothing but rancid bollocks.
Even though in instances where I may be a middleman or a conduit, when someone else has fucked up you can bet your arse that I'm the one seen as the big bad c##t that's solely responsible and so shot down, kicked, and torched to fuckery as a consequence.
Right now, I'm bolloxed up to the eyeballs with this ciarnival of shite and if one more fucker piles on, I'll torch the whole damn fucking circus.
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