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1964dodge

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My stomach has been hurting most of the day. Mostly started after the Spurs match. I don't know why. Maybe just I had been stressed out and bummed out about the match, but idk maybe too much caffeine, maybe just how my eating and sleeping schedules have been screwed up. But I was feeling kinda sick and almost like I'd eaten too much, but all I'd had since the previous afternoon was a scotch egg and a small order of fries. The pain got so bad that I could barely walk, so I gave up on trying to make it to the bus stop and just ordered a Lyft home. I still have pain now hours later, but it's not as sharp.
i hope you feel better soon

mike...*hug*shake
 

Angie

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My dad just got the results of a scan. The cancer is in his pancreas, bile ducts, liver, and bones.

The best hope is still the same, that chemo will put him in remission, and he’ll get good and old before it comes back. But that’s looking less and less likely with every new thing we learn.

After Jessica died, I couldn’t take anymore. With my health declining (the heart attack, then the stroke), I thought I would die next and I was happy that I wouldn’t have to deal with anything like that again. Now it looks like the universe can’t even give me that.
I am so sorry Gonz
 

Lane

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My dad just got the results of a scan. The cancer is in his pancreas, bile ducts, liver, and bones.

The best hope is still the same, that chemo will put him in remission, and he’ll get good and old before it comes back. But that’s looking less and less likely with every new thing we learn.

After Jessica died, I couldn’t take anymore. With my health declining (the heart attack, then the stroke), I thought I would die next and I was happy that I wouldn’t have to deal with anything like that again. Now it looks like the universe can’t even give me that.
I'm sorry to hear this news and how things are going for you Gonz. Your father must be a good man because he raised a good son.
 

SillyOldBear

Teddy Bears Rule! 🐻
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Our dear governor (Washington State) has decided we need another $12 BILLION to fund the state. Says we aren't bringing enough in on taxes already. WHY DOESN'T HE JUST STOP SPENDING SO MUCH? I can't go to my neighbor every time I want money. But that is what our government does with taxes. Raises taxes will only send more people to the food banks, more people living on the streets and more people spending less money because they have less. Then he will still get less tax revenue than he wants. Politicians just seem to be lacking in BRAINS.
 
Death is inevitable, whenever i see pet owners online documenting about their terminally ill pets, i can’t. I cry, my jaw hurts and i cry.

i am brought back to that point where my cat died on arms and there’s nothing i can do, i had no one, i was alone, my heart was ripped out. And it’s been 8 years but it still feels like it happened just right now. I am not scared to die, but I am scared of losing the ones I love to death.
 

1964dodge

Has a monkey as a friend
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how some people treat christmas. they make it commercial and spend a ton of money they don't have, i used to do this but not in the last 5 years or so. of course any christian should be celebrating the birth of christ first then do secular things.

for non christians that don't believe in christ should be looking into the true meaning of christmas, love and peace the secular stuff is after that. some people go out and try to buy love with their wallet.

with the exception of my wife and i getting and giving one big gift we were a bit more fiscally responsible. we loved the gifts we got from family but the big part of christmas was family. we put out food and had a great time together. my son and son in law put my wifes chair together and set up my new tv. we enjoyed togetherness for christmas

mike
 

JMG

Pink Sponge summer horse 💖🧽🌞🐴
Cities should be walkable without pedestrians being endangered by vehicles.
Yes! Was just thinking this when I went out earlier, there’s so many streets around here where there’s only a sidewalk on 1 side of the street, and on the other side it’s just for bloody cars to park ffs! Makes me nuts. The particular city I live in (feels a lot more like a small town in some ways) is pretty old, like older than most of the other cities in my province I think, but still, this isn’t the early 1900’s with horses and carts anymore, so really wish they’d put sidewalks on both sides of every street, would look nicer too. Hopefully someday they will at least. Sorry to hear you have to deal with that too, it sucks for sure.

Speaking of things that “suck” - omfg, I really hate being sick so damn much :( I got both the Covid shot AND flu shot this year (last month) so I had hoped maybe that would spare me from getting sick again for quite a long time. Ugh, just really hoping it won’t last a bloody month again like the cold I had back in April at least.
 

JMG

Pink Sponge summer horse 💖🧽🌞🐴
@toomuchreality - I just wanted to say, I really admire your courage with calling a crisis line, there’s been lotsa times, especially this year, that I have thought about calling one and saying how a part of me kinda hopes I’m gone within a year or 2 because of all the things I feel so deeply afraid of, but I always end up chickening out with it.

I’m sorry the fact that it’s recorded makes it harder for you to say what’s troubling you, that definitely sounds hard. I wouldn’t necessarily be that worried if they decided to call the police on me overall, I mean if a cop showed up at my door cos of what I said to them, it might overwhelm me a bit “at first” but after that, I would just be honest about it all. But ya the small town thing and the gossip would make that harder too for sure. I hope things will get better soon :) * hugs * (if you want them, and if not then warm assurances of wishing the best for you) :);)
 

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