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Sleep

Racheliz

Well-Known Member
#1
Does anybody have any tips on improving sleep? I specifically don't want to use any medications or other substances (like CBD oil or melatonin), but I'm open to almost anything else. I fall asleep within minutes, but wake early and can't go back to sleep, or wake over and over again all night.
 

Lady Wolfshead

wishes you well
#2
What I've heard (on the Therapy in a Nutshell channel on YouTube) is not to lie in bed awake for more than 20 minutes. Get up and do something relaxing like reading or meditation or listen to an audio book for 15 to 20 minutes. Then back to bed and same thing. This prevents lying in bed being associated with a racing mind.
 

Angie

Admin
SF Author
SF Supporter
#3
Routine and good sleep hygiene.

Don't use electronic devices before sleep.
Don't consume caffeine before sleep.

Do make your bed an inviting place.
Do keep your bedroom somewhat cool, temperature wise.

and as Lady Wolf said, when having trouble, get up and read or do something quiet for a bit.

I wish you well in your sleep journey.
 

Just_a_guy

Well-Known Member
#4
Routine and daily activity, especially exercise, will eventually help but dont expect anything to change quickly. I think lifestyle in general plays a big part.

I used to be a really bad sleeper. For me, anxiety in general was the sleep killer and there was certainly no quick and easy solutions.
 

Pearl12

Well-Known Member
#7
I've had the most luck with cardio. When I go to spin class first thing in the morning, I am basically knocked out that night. When I don't, I wake up sometimes 4-5 times throughout the night. The more consistently I do cardio (ideally every day), the better I sleep... sort of like a consistency bonus.

Some things others might have already mentioned that are supposed to help:
- Don't lie in bed for more than 20 minutes if you don't fall asleep. Ideally go to another room until you are ready to try and sleep again
- If you can't sleep after 20 minutes DO NOT use a screen. Read a book instead, or meditate.
- Don't use your bed for anything but sleep and sex
- Don't have a TV in your bedroom (or ideally any screen)
- Don't keep your phone by your bed. If you must use it for an alarm, keep it out of reach. Ideally, get an alarm clock, and keep your phone in a different room

All of the above are supposed to "train your brain" that your bed is for sleep. In this day and age a lot of brains thing beds are for watching TV.

Lastly, there is a therapeutic modality called "CBT for insomnia" which is evidence-based if you can find a therapist trained in it. As I understand it they go through all of the above and then they have you measure your sleep schedule and adjust your time in bed accordingly. I.E. if you only sleep a total of 1 hour each night and get up at 7 AM they'd have you not go to bed until 6 AM. Then gradually increase the time asleep back from 6 AM until you're on a normal schedule. I think they also have you keep a clock out of sight so you don't get anxious about what time it is.
 

Pearl12

Well-Known Member
#9
Oh yea, caffeine's half-life is four hours. That one surprised me. Everybody says it "stays in your system" for four hours. No. After four hours, half of it is gone. After eight hours 75%. So no coffee after 12 noon ideally. Or 4 PM at a minimum.
 

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