Losing all perspective of what to do. Being told by doctors that i am no longer over weight. But my weight is still too much based on BMI. The doctors telling me to ignore the BMI. Am so confused. Been trying to lose weight for 5 years. Now that I am close, they are telling me to stop. Even my cancer support group is saying i am too thin now , to stop. But i want to lose another 20 pounds. I am so confused. Am afraid I am out of control.