Hi BrokenSmile,
I know what you mean. Sometimes we need something more earnest and sincere than people are willing to give when they say they care. Other times they don't know what to do, which often is the same result.
I know as I rebuild "me", I'll try and keep the serenity prayer in better focus...
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.