This morning, i decided to give my daughter kix cereal for breakfast instead of the waffle she usually gets, just to try something new thats I think is popular for kids and to have as a backup option when the waffle is refused. my wife says to me "you always do this when you are home from work. you fuck up everything and then i am left having to get it back to normal." Later she yells at me because she believed i filled out the homestead rebate form incorrectly when i know i had. No apologies afterwards, no nothing. i don't know....is she right? What scared me the most is i was looking at the kitchen knife thinking i could give it a go, not even concerning the welfare of my children. What kind of dad doesn't stand up for himself. I still don't know why i don't fight back, the therapist says not to have 'any major life events', but i don't know how much more of this condenscention i can take. Alot of good that's doing i don't even see her until next week. anyway four glasses of wine later i feel much better about it, certainly felt like i needed a drink.