What did I do to deserve this?!

[Freeganvegan]

Every time I give a guy my phone number they forget to call me. I don’t know what I did to deserve this. I‘m at the end of my rope. 😭

 

[Lady Wolfshead]

Don't stress about it - you don't need to meet "guys" plural - you only need one. And you may well meet him one day. No point worrying about it.

I only met my husband after I was certain I would be single forever. And I had accepted it.

 

[Widowedvegan]

Similarly to @Lady Wolfshead it was when I stopped looking for a partner that I met my husband…
We were both 48 when we met and 50 when we got married, which was a first marriage for both of us…
Try to create a life that you enjoy on your own, take part in activities that you enjoy
Oftentimes if we are desperate for something we send out a vibe which can have the opposite effect of what we want…

 

[Maniae]

If it is attention or conversation that you long for, try joining a support group or dating site with no expectations other than meeting people to talk to.

These can be virtual.

Allow yourself the time to get to know yourself more as you get to know others.

 

[Marga]

I am sorry about that. It doesn't feel nice.

 

[may71]

Hugs Freeganvegan

 

[Survivorist]

I would stop giving out the number - it's also a security risk, it makes you vulnerable and as you mentioned, sad.
Wait until someone gives YOU his number.
The more you search - people will feel it. If you are more reluctant and appear strong and happy - the reaction will be different.
Example:
As long as I was not sure of myself and had complexes (when young), people used to mock and bully me - aura weak.
Once I started Judo and became good at it, nobody ever did this again - aura strong.
It was just automatic.

Why don't you start something that gives you pleasure? There are so many possibilities. From chess-clubs to paragliding. And don't forget - most men are not worth it. Wait for the one.
Good that you are here. I send you a big hug.