We had a slight glitch and the forum deleted about 80 threads at random - we are restoring them currently but you may have had an alert saying your thread was deleted - please ignore this and do not be concerned. Thanks, Freya :)
I want to talk so badly, but almost everything I can think of to say is "not OK" in some form or another. But then, that's the problem. I feel like I am constantly being boxed in, restricted, corralled, or herded in a direction that someone else feels is most appropriate.