Previously I posted about my fiancé’s dad. My fiancé worked with him for 70 hours a week, 10 hours a day for under minimum wage and he allowed him no time off which was straining our relationship. I then confronted him politely and said we need some time for us because we’re unhappy, he then responded with rage and calling me worthless and a ton of other insults. Now we’re dealing with his mother, she has mental health issues which I’m respective of but she takes things way too far. She is very erratic and will send tens of texts at a time firing questions and pushing limits. She said I’m dragging him down (I’m in the US on a visitors visa, I’m not allowed to work) I’m currently waiting on immigration to approve my fiancé visa then which apply for a work visa and try and find a job suited to my needs. I’m on disability money because of my severe anxiety and depression and I find daily life very hard, I contribute to the apartment and bills and pay for quite a bit as my fiancé is currently in the job seeking process. She’s demanding he “train me” in her words to become a housewife. After all of this she’s inviting us to do things for the holidays and I don’t want to as she makes me very upset and uncomfortable. Am I in the wrong? For both of them to act so callously and cruel toward me I feel like I am failing my fiancé and that they may be right, it isn’t hard to plant doubt in my mind and it’s tearing me apart