You know those 'one in million' people who seem to be smart, logical, beautiful, and talented at everything under the sun? It just so happens i know someone like that...my younger sister (by 3 years difference).
I can't tell you how miserable it has made me all my life to be in her shadows? If you know how sisters work, they are always comparing to each other.
What's worse? I don't have a single talent (at 24 and still nothing), I'm very slow when it comes to school and problems, and i can tell you honestly (this is the truth) that i am a slightly unattractive girl (not hideously ugly but not really cute either).
It makes me crazy. I love my sister and we are great friends. How can someone who makes me feel happy to be around also be able to make me feel sad.
She doesn't see it (of course) I try to explain to her how i feel and she gets upset and doesn't wanna hear it.
I dunno what to do. I'm always the homely girl who is glued to her side while all the guys fawn over her. It makes me so miserable.
Sorry, i just needed to let this out. I hope this doesn't count as a rant but i'm looking for advice too on how to handle this so i'm not left feeling sad. (I can tell you i have had many guys drop me like a hot potato when they saw her...and even though she is nice enough to not accept them after that, it still hurts).
Why is it everyone out there doesn't have to deal with this sort of thing with their siblings, except me? (at least, not to this extreme)
I can't tell you how miserable it has made me all my life to be in her shadows? If you know how sisters work, they are always comparing to each other.
What's worse? I don't have a single talent (at 24 and still nothing), I'm very slow when it comes to school and problems, and i can tell you honestly (this is the truth) that i am a slightly unattractive girl (not hideously ugly but not really cute either).
It makes me crazy. I love my sister and we are great friends. How can someone who makes me feel happy to be around also be able to make me feel sad.
She doesn't see it (of course) I try to explain to her how i feel and she gets upset and doesn't wanna hear it.
I dunno what to do. I'm always the homely girl who is glued to her side while all the guys fawn over her. It makes me so miserable.
Sorry, i just needed to let this out. I hope this doesn't count as a rant but i'm looking for advice too on how to handle this so i'm not left feeling sad. (I can tell you i have had many guys drop me like a hot potato when they saw her...and even though she is nice enough to not accept them after that, it still hurts).
Why is it everyone out there doesn't have to deal with this sort of thing with their siblings, except me? (at least, not to this extreme)
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