grief came back, and it hurts

[ryuko]

previous threads: https://www.suicideforum.com/commun...h-you-could-talk-to-someone-whos-gone.122187/

https://www.suicideforum.com/community/threads/just-really-wanna-talk-to-someone.151119/

i was doing fine, i forgot when i had last felt sad. then last night i had a dream about him, where he was online, and i said "i missed you so much!! im so happy youre alive!!" it just kind of hit me different. he was on this site as fumahol, i just wish there was closure, confirmation hes passed, or alive. i just wanna know.

 

[Lekatt]

previous threads: https://www.suicideforum.com/commun...h-you-could-talk-to-someone-whos-gone.122187/

https://www.suicideforum.com/community/threads/just-really-wanna-talk-to-someone.151119/

i was doing fine, i forgot when i had last felt sad. then last night i had a dream about him, where he was online, and i said "i missed you so much!! im so happy youre alive!!" it just kind of hit me different. he was on this site as fumahol, i just wish there was closure, confirmation hes passed, or alive. i just wanna know.

I can't tell if he is still in the physical world or not, but the dream makes me believe he has crossed over and is telling you he is OK. People often have dreams from deceased loved ones, it is a way they let you know they are doing fine and miss you. I believe that dream from your friend was closure. He loves you, misses you, and very happy you are still alive in the physical. All us humans are eternal beings. You will see your friend again when your time to cross over comes. Love.

 

[may71]

Hugs Ryuko

 

[lightning05]

I had a similar dream about a friend who passed. He came up to me to hug me and tell me that he's okay and not to worry. I really do believe in those types of dreams the person is speaking to you similar to what @Lekatt said. That being said I do understand you wanting closure and I'm sorry that you're hurting. s*