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Astrid78

Spoonful of sugar will help the medicine go down
Stressed because a dating app has been charging my account $169 every 6 months and there's no way I can get them to cancel, it's like a scam. So I have to close my bank account but some automatuc payments come out of there. I haven't been on this app for like 3 years.
What a crap thing to do. Hopefully your bank will reimburse you the money at least.
*hug
 

Aurelia

πŸ”₯ A Fire Inside πŸ”₯
SF Supporter
I find myself happier doing cross-stitching, painting, and other art projects, as well as listening to audiobooks and the Bible and watching television by myself in my room than I am looking for a new romantic partner. Whereas the former brings me mostly peace of mind, the latter bring me a sense of overwhelm. Being single is not so bad.
 

HappyKitty

Works during the day, doodles at night.
Was just talking about this with someone. I know what you mean. It's so prevalent on social media and a big part of why I don't use it anymore.
its not just social media tho, but- family, friends and basically people who doesnt know boundaries and just want to disrespect you in some sort. they then be manipjlative of you whenever you disagree with them. like everyone has a different mindset and you can't be a solulu to every mindset and expect the same.

just like my uncle example:
"oh your heart rate is high... do you overthink...?"

Then he just keep yapping away. Rotfl.
 

Lane

SF Pro
SF Supporter
I find myself happier doing cross-stitching, painting, and other art projects, as well as listening to audiobooks and the Bible and watching television by myself in my room than I am looking for a new romantic partner. Whereas the former brings me mostly peace of mind, the latter bring me a sense of overwhelm. Being single is not so bad.
I looked up crossstitching because I wanted to try it. Is it hard? Im glad you're finding peace of mind in your hobbies and Bible and audiobooks.
 
Thanks, they reimbursed me $169. Now I have to close out my account.
Something i have had to do several times is just set up an unauthorized payment with the bank. It says that you have not authorized this payment, nor will you ever authorize the payments from this company or it's affiliates. Then you wont have to close the account and do all the pain staking work it takes for the auto billing you have set up. Most banks will work with you on this and help you through it, plus it's pretty quick. Just call the help # on the back of your bank card or go into a branch. I wish you luck with that. it's very frustrating how companies take advantage of people like that.
 
I looked up crosstitching because I wanted to try it. Is it hard?
i would like to suggest you start out with "counted cross-stitching"
The pattern is already set up and should be printed on the canvas as well. Start with a small project, as it's not as overwhelming. Then you can work your way up to the larger ones and blank canvases. There's even ways to design your own.
 

Astrid78

Spoonful of sugar will help the medicine go down
its not just social media tho, but- family, friends and basically people who doesnt know boundaries and just want to disrespect you in some sort. they then be manipjlative of you whenever you disagree with them. like everyone has a different mindset and you can't be a solulu to every mindset and expect the same.

just like my uncle example:
"oh your heart rate is high... do you overthink...?"

Then he just keep yapping away. Rotfl.
Oh do I know what you mean, especially about disagreeing, like sheesh is it really that big a deal if someone doesn't think like you? People can just really get inflated sometimes
 

HappyKitty

Works during the day, doodles at night.
Oh do I know what you mean, especially about disagreeing, like sheesh is it really that big a deal if someone doesn't think like you? People can just really get inflated sometimes
omg i genuinely love you for understanding haha thanks. just sad that they wont be humblin to open up the truth about themselve then blame us for it.
 

Aurelia

πŸ”₯ A Fire Inside πŸ”₯
SF Supporter
i would like to suggest you start out with "counted cross-stitching"
The pattern is already set up and should be printed on the canvas as well. Start with a small project, as it's not as overwhelming. Then you can work your way up to the larger ones and blank canvases. There's even ways to design your own.
I thought counted crossstitch was a blank canvas? Stamped crossstitch on the other hand is when the image is pre-printed.
 

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