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How Are You Feeling Right Now?
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Congratulations to you and the Mrs. 
I agree with seabird that you should not overdue when it comes time to move.
I agree with seabird that you should not overdue when it comes time to move.
mike....
Just wanted to say I can relate to this feeling, especially the last sentence. So extremely upset, disappointed and utterly shocked about something that was said to me by a family member that I literally can’t even talk about it.
Just…wow. That’s all I can really say about it right now. I cannot fight to keep that connection/relationship alive any longer, so I guess his brainwashing on her has won. Just don’t have the energy to keep fighting against it anymore, he’s always been jealous of me and has been doing all he can for many years to get her to think of me in a negative, judgmental and critical way. It seems she does now, and does not think anything positive about me. It’s the last kind of energy I need, especially with what a challenging year it has already bloody been for me.
Anyway, I’m sorry you are feeling that way and I hope it will be a shift for the “better” (for both of us)
Congrats on finding a place you like Mike, and that you’ll be able to move in this weekend too, that’s great and I’m happy for you
Sending lotsa hugs to everyone here who wants them, happy for those who are doing well, and wishing for there to be lotsa happiness/peace soon for those who aren’t doing so well right now
Just…wow. That’s all I can really say about it right now. I cannot fight to keep that connection/relationship alive any longer, so I guess his brainwashing on her has won. Just don’t have the energy to keep fighting against it anymore, he’s always been jealous of me and has been doing all he can for many years to get her to think of me in a negative, judgmental and critical way. It seems she does now, and does not think anything positive about me. It’s the last kind of energy I need, especially with what a challenging year it has already bloody been for me.
Anyway, I’m sorry you are feeling that way and I hope it will be a shift for the “better” (for both of us)
Congrats on finding a place you like Mike, and that you’ll be able to move in this weekend too, that’s great and I’m happy for you
Sending lotsa hugs to everyone here who wants them, happy for those who are doing well, and wishing for there to be lotsa happiness/peace soon for those who aren’t doing so well right now
You’re welcome Mike, wasn’t sure if you’d see
that reply to you or not but thought keeping what I said short and sweet was probably best
Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear this Mike. I hope your pain will go down a lot, very soon. 9 is better than 10 for sure, I definitely admire your strong spirit and optimism, it is very inspiring.
Just wanted to let you know that, and I hope you will take it as easy as you can so the pain will go down quicker.
Wishing the best for you, always
that reply to you or not but thought keeping what I said short and sweet was probably best
Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear this Mike. I hope your pain will go down a lot, very soon. 9 is better than 10 for sure, I definitely admire your strong spirit and optimism, it is very inspiring.
Just wanted to let you know that, and I hope you will take it as easy as you can so the pain will go down quicker.
Wishing the best for you, always
Really appreciate this aunt, friend from baking class and giving me emotional support over dinner.🥰
heres the story, which i enjoy..😂
okay so you know how theres two diff types of parents. one who teaches their kids survival and one who wants their kids success and achievements. The second one is the stricter and stupider, I would say. The first one who teaches their kids survival are accepting and not choosey of what their kids do however much their kids dont like the job / finds the job difficult, they dont have the choice to quit but find ways to learn how to cope and deal w conflicts and stresses which at least their parents support them yano? So my aunt is as equally rich as mine and both rely on their husbands for money but my aunt is more sensible.
So my mum is the success and achievements type she be like very contradicting and chosey even if I do a part time / side job. She wants me to do full time / study which I'm not good at and which shes not understanding of. So Im being pressured and compared to my brothers like the black sheep of the family just cause my brothers has masters etc.
And you know that long weekend which just recent last week, we went on road trip Wed- Saturday.. I asked her to do a facial analysis while we are at Indonesia for roadtrip at Erha in watsapp. Then over lunch when she told this to my other aunt who follows.... And was indirectly sarcastic abt me to her be like inviting they should go Erha and she be like "but only those who work"
🙄🙄🙄
So my aunt who didnt follow , when I told her that, even however petty that sounds her face was really pissed. And she told me "oh you should say it back then... but you get money from your husband..." 🤣🤣🤣🙄
heres the story, which i enjoy..😂
okay so you know how theres two diff types of parents. one who teaches their kids survival and one who wants their kids success and achievements. The second one is the stricter and stupider, I would say. The first one who teaches their kids survival are accepting and not choosey of what their kids do however much their kids dont like the job / finds the job difficult, they dont have the choice to quit but find ways to learn how to cope and deal w conflicts and stresses which at least their parents support them yano? So my aunt is as equally rich as mine and both rely on their husbands for money but my aunt is more sensible.
So my mum is the success and achievements type she be like very contradicting and chosey even if I do a part time / side job. She wants me to do full time / study which I'm not good at and which shes not understanding of. So Im being pressured and compared to my brothers like the black sheep of the family just cause my brothers has masters etc.
And you know that long weekend which just recent last week, we went on road trip Wed- Saturday.. I asked her to do a facial analysis while we are at Indonesia for roadtrip at Erha in watsapp. Then over lunch when she told this to my other aunt who follows.... And was indirectly sarcastic abt me to her be like inviting they should go Erha and she be like "but only those who work"
🙄🙄🙄
So my aunt who didnt follow , when I told her that, even however petty that sounds her face was really pissed. And she told me "oh you should say it back then... but you get money from your husband..." 🤣🤣🤣🙄
I just wish I am not as reactive and more quick witted like her, I mean all of us are earning money to survive. We are no different, what makes them so entitled? Just cause if you are boastfuls of achievements... It doesn't mean you are smarter than anyone. Shes right. I admire how she brush off from arguments quick imo.
Dear @JMG & @1964dodge:
I appreciate that you both reached out to me. It means so much...
Sending thankful hugs to you both!
I appreciate that you both reached out to me. It means so much...
A bit unnerved. I just returned from the park where I did an hour of exercise with my personal trainer. I was being threatened by some guy who lives next to the park. He was dropping f and c bombs all over the place. Now I don't feel safe going there anymore. I am a tall, well-built guy but in reality, I am very timid. I will see what happens next week.
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