How Are You Feeling Right Now?

[1964dodge]

Even though you don't want sympathy, just sending some caring hugs until you feel better.

thank you witty

mike...

 

[1964dodge]

not wanting to be alive but idk why

you are going back to school for your phd i believe and have so much good ahead of you in life. i know you have pain and i hope someday you can find a way out of the pain and live the positive life you have worked so hard for

mike...

 

[1964dodge]

ok i guess. i am happy because my wife finally took my advice. her depression is getting a lot worse and she jumps on me for no reason. she doesn't mean it and always apologizes after but it makes me walk on eggshells. she was apparently honest because they wanted her to come in today but she decided to go in next week. it's ok because with meds she gets better. i don't know why but her doctor took her off depression meds around 6 months ago. so i am optomistic

mike

 

[Windhover]

Crap. It took 5 tries but today he has managed to communicate to me that the punishment phase has arrived. Where's the incense. This is draining and grown-up-himan-stupid. I'm not trying to make anyone feel like an idiot. Besides. His emotional reactions aren't my responsibility.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Oh

Witty I'm so sorry that this is necessary. I hope they do it all at once. Because: For me the needle is the worst part.
I had just a portion of one pulled and omg it hurt.
Take extra vit C. I have read it is vital for healing and teeth.

Let us know how it's going.

I can't really do it all at once due to the cost. I've had one pulled so I know the basics of what I'll need to do. I'm more worried about how I will function later on. I feel like it will be harder to chew with that many teeth missing.

 

[iloverachel]

Every day I wake up, wishing I didn't

 

[HappyKitty]

I feel like I should have explored reedit while I'm at waiting room. Its so interesting like its my first time lol.😂

Im looking at thread "explaintomelikeimfive"

😂😂😂

 

[Road to Nowhere]

Every day I wake up, wishing I didn't

You are not alone my friend.

 

[Windhover]

Every day I wake up, wishing I didn't

I'm just sitting here thinking about this

hug
And @road too

 

[iloverachel]

I'm just sitting here thinking about this

hug
And @road too

Hope you feel better soon too

 

[AvidFan]

I'm awake after a broken sleep. Was doing well with sleep for a few weeks but lately had a few bad nights. Woke at 4am then 9am today, so got up to potter around. Light duties today, will do shopping and a run later.

 

[Lane]

In my opinion she shouldn't be leaving the giant mixer in the middle of the counter. We keep our mixer in a cupboard but if there's no place for it, it should be kept in her room. It's not okay to leave you without a food prep area. It wouldn't be okay if she had roommates and it's not okay with family IMHO.

You could say something like "I don't have enough room to prepare food with that big mixer on the counter. What should we do about that?"

I believe your kids are in their mid 20s? I know it's now common for kids to still live with their parents in their 20s but they are adults and should be very grateful that option is there.

My mother would have thrown the mixer in the garbage if I didn't take it off the counter after she asked me too. Not saying that is good behaviour but it's my frame of reference I guess. Your house, your rules. Is she paying rent?

Hi Lady, they don't pay rent. My son took the mixer and put it in the cabinet where the pots go. Now there's not a lot of room where the pots go, but at least it's not on the counter.

To be honest, I don't really cook anymore because of the kitchen situation, I do a lot of take out because I feel like they've taken over the kitchen. I know this isn't a great solution to the kitchen mess.

Thanks for listening and for the good communication tips.

 

[Daryl72]

Every day I wake up, wishing I didn't

You and me both!!

 

[AvidFan]

You and me both!!

😥

 

[sourire]

I feel okay, I’m still job hunting!

 

[HappyKitty]

first time. my trip to the emergency wasnt so miserable, actually made a friend when the convo started "sis, can you help me watch my stuffs for me for a while, I kinda wanna grab a sandwhich." me "ok sure" convo goes from there. she has sth with back pain and I came in for migraine attack. and she came alone too, felt we normalise this.😂

 

[HappyKitty]

but actually. putting the jokes and egoness aside. im at vulnerable state yet again, I swear I felt really okay in June, I was so under control, I agreed to work. My docs news about me saddens me, I cant find ways to express. Now I am stuck in that guilt cycle whenever I am not work even if I knew I could take time off- Just while waiting for many tests and scannings ahead, I am really anxious about not being able to keep my job- its not just while theres drs apt, I forgot that I could get sick.

 

[Cyb3rSw0rd]

This topic is simple. Post how you are right now. It could be what your thinking, doing, listening to, writing...whatever! Because you know what they say:

"Get out of the past, stop dreading the future, and worry about now!"

Right now, I'm so-so, not happy, not sad, but less stressed because it's Saturday.

Anxious. I fucked up my hair and I have to go somewhere today and now idk what to do 💀💀💀

 

[Lady Wolfshead]

Hi Lady, they don't pay rent. My son took the mixer and put it in the cabinet where the pots go. Now there's not a lot of room where the pots go, but at least it's not on the counter.

To be honest, I don't really cook anymore because of the kitchen situation, I do a lot of take out because I feel like they've taken over the kitchen. I know this isn't a great solution to the kitchen mess.

Thanks for listening and for the good communication tips.

Glad the mixer is out of the way. Is take out not expensive? (it sure is here). Maybe invest in a dishwashing machine if you don't have one? But all these expenses should be borne by the kids if they are not paying rent or cleaning up after themselves. But I know it's easy for me to say. A professional therapist could probably suggest how to approach the subject with them.

 

[Lady Wolfshead]

I feel apprehensive...

My brother just informed me he is scheduled for surgery next Friday (August 18th). They had previously told him it was "wait and see." 1/3 of his rectum will be removed to make sure they get any wayward cells, even though his tumour was destroyed by radiation and chemo.

He has decided to go ahead with it.

I was quite opposed and thought he should wait and also take Tumeric. However it's his decision. He will have a temporary colostomy bag then if all goes well that will be removed in a few weeks.