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How Are You Feeling Right Now?

Lane

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Not that good. I suddenly have this thought that my parents (especially my mom) is forever going to control every aspect of my life. I don't think I will be able to marry the person I want to marry (not that I have anyone now, just worried about the future) because most of the time, what I think is good for me, is not good for her and she will never allow me to think for myself. I think I am doomed.
It sounds like she has a strong personality. I think it's smart to think about your future and as an adult you have every right to control it. I don't know where you live or your family dynamics. But I do hope for a future that you control.
 
Worthless and a screw up. The mistake i made yesterday at work is plaguing me still today, and probably will for the next 14 days. As operations manager at a hotel, those types of mistakes are pretty costly for everyone. It was a tiny simple mistake and i should have remembered to get the info needed. i'm just not thinking as i used to and this is confirming to me that i need to step down n give the position to someone who can do the job as i am useless at it. The same uselessness i am with the people in my life.
 

MisterBGone

~\_βœ…`,')
SF Supporter
Worthless and a screw up. The mistake i made yesterday at work is plaguing me still today, and probably will for the next 14 days. As operations manager at a hotel, those types of mistakes are pretty costly for everyone. It was a tiny simple mistake and i should have remembered to get the info needed. i'm just not thinking as i used to and this is confirming to me that i need to step down n give the position to someone who can do the job as i am useless at it. The same uselessness i am with the people in my life.
I would try to put it out of my head, and to not let it bother me, if I were you. It sounds like it was an honest one that was made, and since that is the case, then whatever happens, happens. It's like in sports where if you fixate on your screw-up's, you will only affect your future/or present performance by dwelling on it, and then also feeling worse about it, as it then inhibits your ability to do as quality or good of work. Or it can/could. If it gets in the way - or you let it. And even if it doesn't, then it will still affect you personally, as it drains your confidence & begins to take a toll on your mental and other kinds of health. If it was a big mistake, or problem for them. I'm sure someone who is your superior will let you know. And they will communicate with you both how much of an error you had made was (in their eyes, the ramifications of, and so on) and also what if any kind of reprimand is necessary and therefore in store for you. Anyway, can't go back in time & fix or change it. So just (best to) let it go... : ) // I mean, it's different if you made a habit (out) of this. Or if you had done so in gross negligence, or on purpose - as in, sabotage, of some kind. But neither one of those seems/or sounds quite correct based on your descprition(s).
 

1964dodge

Has a monkey as a friend
Safety & Support
SF Supporter
Worthless and a screw up. The mistake i made yesterday at work is plaguing me still today, and probably will for the next 14 days. As operations manager at a hotel, those types of mistakes are pretty costly for everyone. It was a tiny simple mistake and i should have remembered to get the info needed. i'm just not thinking as i used to and this is confirming to me that i need to step down n give the position to someone who can do the job as i am useless at it. The same uselessness i am with the people in my life.
*hug*console*shake
 

Lane

SF Pro
SF Supporter
Worthless and a screw up. The mistake i made yesterday at work is plaguing me still today, and probably will for the next 14 days. As operations manager at a hotel, those types of mistakes are pretty costly for everyone. It was a tiny simple mistake and i should have remembered to get the info needed. i'm just not thinking as i used to and this is confirming to me that i need to step down n give the position to someone who can do the job as i am useless at it. The same uselessness i am with the people in my life.
You're definitely not worthless nor a screw up. Everyone makes mistakes and I hope your company understands that. It sounds like you're being really hard on yourself when you are really a terrific person. *console
 
Worthless and a screw up. The mistake i made yesterday at work is plaguing me still today, and probably will for the next 14 days. As operations manager at a hotel, those types of mistakes are pretty costly for everyone. It was a tiny simple mistake and i should have remembered to get the info needed. i'm just not thinking as i used to and this is confirming to me that i need to step down n give the position to someone who can do the job as i am useless at it. The same uselessness i am with the people in my life.
I'm sorry you feel that way..God loves you deeply..you can always find your worth in that..Hugss my dear friendπŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚β€οΈβ€οΈ
 
you can always find your worth in that
i used to find comfort in that... He gave me some absolutely Amazing Gifts and Blessings throughout my life. My problem is they have almost all been taken away as well... i guess i didn't use those gifts according to His plan... although i tried my best... creative ministry for over 20 yrs.... then *poof* i can no longer. Someday i hope to know why... until then i just feel worthless and a huge disappointment.
 

MisterBGone

~\_βœ…`,')
SF Supporter
Not heard of that before. Must be a US med. I’m taking cold and flu but it only just takes the edge off.
Oh DUDE- You're (so!) "missing-out~" . . . & that's like they're 'marketing/advertising,' campaign - or, at least it used to be a really long time ago. Which is why, or what reminded me of it, when reading your post! It's been the only thing sustaining me for the past month or so... :)
 

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