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This might be a lil crazy
but this roomie of mine who is a little savage and makes thoughtless comments despite not being a bad girl, randomly said I wouldnt have passed any of my exams if it wasnt for a guy friend who helps me out, right after I said I was smart. Well I found a few people in my class study 10+ hours daily and was shocked, are they a lil slow or am i smart? Then she immediately said this to discourage me.
 

MisterBGone

~\_✅`,')
SF Supporter
This might be a lil crazy
but this roomie of mine who is a little savage and makes thoughtless comments despite not being a bad girl, randomly said I wouldnt have passed any of my exams if it wasnt for a guy friend who helps me out, right after I said I was smart. Well I found a few people in my class study 10+ hours daily and was shocked, are they a lil slow or am i smart? Then she immediately said this to discourage me.
Who cares what others think? Hard not to feel hurt, when the criticism is aimed/launched at you so personally. But just realize, also/too~ that this says a lot more about them - the other person - than it does you. Don't pass judgements. Pass exams. Then boards, blah-blah-blah. . ;D
 

Aurelia

🔥 A Fire Inside 🔥
SF Supporter
I looked up to my cross hanging up on my wall and asked The Lord Almighty a question. I thought perhaps if I looked in His direction and concentrated, I'd hear His answer better. And I did. For some reason, it came to mind that all the lights had gone out several times in the house during the five month period when that evil thing lurked in my bedroom. I had asked whether it was the cause of the lights going out because it happened at least three or four times during that very period. Usually, that almost never happens, and hasn't happened again ever since it left. It worked and I heard him in my head. The Lord replied, "Yes, it knew you had nowhere else to go and it wanted to frighten you."
 

LumberJack

Huggy Bear 🐻 u r warned!
SF Supporter
This might be a lil crazy
but this roomie of mine who is a little savage and makes thoughtless comments despite not being a bad girl, randomly said I wouldnt have passed any of my exams if it wasnt for a guy friend who helps me out, right after I said I was smart. Well I found a few people in my class study 10+ hours daily and was shocked, are they a lil slow or am i smart? Then she immediately said this to discourage me.
Sounds like she is jealous, so she is cutting you down. Not a nice thing to do, but she may not even be aware that is what she did. In that situation, I would try telling her that her comment was throwing a wet blanket on your satisfaction with your performance. This is being vulnerable so I would only do it if I felt safe with her. If she responds with an apology for hurting your feelings, that would say it was unintentional. If the opposite response occurs, then I would start to distance myself from her.
 

Aurelia

🔥 A Fire Inside 🔥
SF Supporter
A man I met on a dating app with HIV and an anger problem got upset that I ghosted him. I said women ghost you when they don't want to hurt your feelings. Then he said a bunch of nasty things to try to establish some sort of sense of superiority over me, and then I realized why am I even responding to this nonsense? Not only would I have been at risk of contracting HIV with this one, but he clearly has some sort of control issues and is manipulative and angry. Dodged a bullet with that one.
 

Lane

SF Pro
SF Supporter
A man I met on a dating app with HIV and an anger problem got upset that I ghosted him. I said women ghost you when they don't want to hurt your feelings. Then he said a bunch of nasty things to try to establish some sort of sense of superiority over me, and then I realized why am I even responding to this nonsense? Not only would I have been at risk of contracting HIV with this one, but he clearly has some sort of control issues and is manipulative and angry. Dodged a bullet with that one.
Glad you got out early. I stayed with a man who turned out to be a narcissistic, very abusive, met him on a dating app for 4 years. That's not to say that all the guys are duds on there though.
 

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