How Are You Feeling Right Now?

[Lane]

Sad to hear about the argument, I hope all goes well for you both.

Thank you KM. We did talk it out. But I realized that at 64 (him) people will have their quirks...and keep them. I accept it.

 

[Kiwi2016]

Thank you KM. We did talk it out. But I realized that at 64 (him) people will have their quirks...and keep them. I accept it.

Glad you were able to talk it out and yes you are so right about quirks and aging (speaking for myself)....

 

[Kiwi2016]

Feeling like I've ticked off /disappointed some friends and now left contemplating how to repair without being overly needy....if that makes any sense...yes I'm a people pleaser type person alas...

 

[1964dodge]

Feeling like I've ticked off /disappointed some friends and now left contemplating how to repair without being overly needy....if that makes any sense...yes I'm a people pleaser type person alas...

 

[puffymilk]

I am feeling pretty positive

 

[HappyKitty]

Doesn't want to be alone with my thoughts yet I'm feeling bitter and pessimistic about life so much, I'm still isolating self in order not to hurt others. Belief me, my pessimism is 100% strong, our friendship could end and I could possibly be banned.

 

[Lane]

Feeling like I've ticked off /disappointed some friends and now left contemplating how to repair without being overly needy....if that makes any sense...yes I'm a people pleaser type person alas...

I feel like if they're true friends they will understand. I bet you didn't even disappoint them.

 

[Lane]

Doesn't want to be alone with my thoughts yet I'm feeling bitter and pessimistic about life so much, I'm still isolating self in order not to hurt others. Belief me, my pessimism is 100% strong, our friendship could end and I could possibly be banned.

I'm glad you're posting here Kitty. Sorry to hear that you're having a rough time lately. I hope life gets easier very soon.

 

[AvidFan]

I am groggy but OK. Going through a period of being unable to stay awake most of the day then unable to sleep most of the night. As I can stay awake some of the day and sleep some of the night, I'll take it over how things could be/have been in the past (zero sleep, 4am starts to days)!

 

[Kiwi2016]

I feel like if they're true friends they will understand. I bet you didn't even disappoint them.

Thanks @Lane so sweet of you to say...you are right that we are so often our worst critics...

 

[1964dodge]

I am feeling pretty positive

hope it lasts a long time

mike....

 

[1964dodge]

got up late and ended up taking a long nap. a little nervous about meeting my brother tomorrow after being apart for decades

mike

 

[TragicReality]

got up late and ended up taking a long nap. a little nervous about meeting my brother tomorrow after being apart for decades

mike

I hope it goes well mike!

 

[TragicReality]

Right now, like a peice of dirt. I'm an idiot for loving a guy that doesn't love me. I ended it but that woman wouldn't leave it be today. I'm not happy. He's not happy. Nothing will fix this. I almost want to hate myself tonight

 

[1964dodge]

I hope it goes well mike!

me too. i thought it was 32 years since i last talked to him. but it's only been 21 years lol

mike

 

[TragicReality]

How can a person force themselves to stop loving and caring about someone? Can someone please give me an answer?

 

[1964dodge]

Right now, like a peice of dirt. I'm an idiot for loving a guy that doesn't love me. I ended it but that woman wouldn't leave it be today. I'm not happy. He's not happy. Nothing will fix this. I almost want to hate myself tonight

i'm sorry that you are hurting so much. all i can do is wish from my heart you get over this soon

mike...

 

[TragicReality]

i'm sorry that you are hurting so much. all i can do is wish from my heart you get over this soon

mike...

I put the blame on me. It's the only way. Tonight he said he is to blame. He's not. I'm older. I should have been wiser but my heart isn't wise. Thank you mike, take care as best you can.

 

[puffymilk]

How can a person force themselves to stop loving and caring about someone? Can someone please give me an answer?

Wondering about the same thing. Usually people would say that "time will heal". I guess it kinda works for me, but not 100%, yet

 

[Windhover]

How can a person force themselves to stop loving and caring about someone? Can someone please give me an answer?

I don't know. I suspect that once someone loves someone deeply, it's always going to be there, even when it's buried out of sight.
Mindfulness, working out, running.