How Are You Feeling Right Now?

[1964dodge]

Getting help wouldn’t seem hopeless if I didn’t see myself as so broken, flawed, useless, and unwanted.

it's easy to see ourselves that way when things are so bad. yes you probably have issues, but they can be fixed

mike....

 

[1964dodge]

so tired and a bit worried. i also notice both my wife and i are starting to shut down. we used to go out 2 or 3 times a week sometimes more in the summer but now only if we absolutely have to, once every week or 2, i'm trying to snap us out of it but so far not being able to. but i am a fighter so win or lose i will continue to fight

mike

 

[Angie]

Now that college starts tomorrow, the excitement has dwindled and been replaced with a form of dread.

I am consumed by "what if".

 

[SillyOldBear]

Now that college starts tomorrow, the excitement has dwindled and been replaced with a form of dread.

I am consumed by "what if".

You are a smart lady. You will do great!

 

[FieryL]

Loneliness among people. Quite strongly even and for quite some time.

Kind of I have all these new (some relatively new, but still new) contacts in my life, but no real warmth.

 

[Inanimate]

it's easy to see ourselves that way when things are so bad. yes you probably have issues, but they can be fixed

mike....

I might take your word for it eventually, but not right now.

 

[KM76710]

A little bit sad....my mother will only be there for me when the circumstances are good...broken tbh....if anyone wants to give me a hug, it's very much appreciated. Thanks....

You know you can always find care and somefrom us here.

 

[AmberMarie]

so tired and a bit worried. i also notice both my wife and i are starting to shut down. we used to go out 2 or 3 times a week sometimes more in the summer but now only if we absolutely have to, once every week or 2, i'm trying to snap us out of it but so far not being able to. but i am a fighter so win or lose i will continue to fight

mike

It's good that you have noticed it. To me... that alone is a huge step.

 

[nu.lone_5]

I feel lonely and anxious
I wish I had someone to hold and love me

 

[Pebble mouse]

I am so stressed out. My dads dog had to be put down after he was attacked by another dog. Then a few hours ago we were in a car accident. We knocked over a pole and ended up on the kerb. I don't think he should be driving anymore, but don't know how to tell him. I just got home. I've put some music on so I will relax with that. Bad day.

 

[FlamingoWrangler]

so tired and a bit worried. i also notice both my wife and i are starting to shut down. we used to go out 2 or 3 times a week sometimes more in the summer but now only if we absolutely have to, once every week or 2, i'm trying to snap us out of it but so far not being able to. but i am a fighter so win or lose i will continue to fight

mike

it’s a strange realization. You have had a lot of mentally & physically exhausting challenges recently. I hope you can make some spontaneous outings happen when you feel up to it.

 

[FlamingoWrangler]

I am so stressed out. My dads dog had to be put down after he was attacked by another dog. Then a few hours ago we were in a car accident. We knocked over a pole and ended up on the kerb. I don't think he should be driving anymore, but don't know how to tell him. I just got home. I've put some music on so I will relax with that. Bad day.

oh Mouse, it sounds like you have good reasons for stress. Sorry for the loss of your dad’s dog, then the accident. Yikes! I am glad your body is ok. The emotions of losing the dog really effects concentration. The car insurance may recommend an evaluation of his ability due to the accident/his age.
l am sorry it’s been so stressful. I am glad you are both alive, hopefully not too injured.
I hope the music has helped to chill & find calm again.
🦩🦩🦩🦩

 

[Pebble mouse]

Thank you @FlamingoWrangler. That poor dog. I really feel for my dad.

 

[FlamingoWrangler]

I feel lonely and anxious
I wish I had someone to hold and love me

hi @nu.lone_5, Sorry you’re feeling alone & anxious. You’ve come to the right place! This is a great place to share and be heard. Acceptance & true kindness awaits you. There are a lot of wonderful people here- and we know the struggle is real. You can share, ask for input or empathy. I often feel that way myself. It sucks. 💔
I am glad you’re here. I hope to see you posting more as you are up to it.
Sending a comforting hug.
I am glad you are here!
🦩🦩🦩🦩

 

[FlamingoWrangler]

Thank you @FlamingoWrangler. That poor dog. I really feel for my dad.

YW. That must have been so scary. It’s dreadful to think about an attack like that. Heartbreaking. 💔

 

[FlamingoWrangler]

Now that college starts tomorrow, the excitement has dwindled and been replaced with a form of dread.

I am consumed by "what if".

Best of luck! I believe in you. Let us know how it goes.
🦩🦩🦩🦩

 

[Angie]

Best of luck! I believe in you. Let us know how it goes.
🦩🦩🦩🦩

Thank you!

I opened the first course at 1 am, its now 3:45 am and I've gotten through the intro and the first quiz! Had to install some software on my computer for this and mess with passwords.

Shew! I hope each class won't take 2 and 3/4 hours for each intro!

 

[FlamingoWrangler]

Loneliness among people. Quite strongly even and for quite some time.

Kind of I have all these new (some relatively new, but still new) contacts in my life, but no real warmth.

we are here for you. It’s not the same as rl, but i hope you can feel comforted.

 

[FlamingoWrangler]

Thank you!

I opened the first course at 1 am, its now 3:45 am and I've gotten through the intro and the first quiz! Had to install some software on my computer for this and mess with passwords.

Shew! I hope each class won't take 2 and 3/4 hours for each intro!

Wow, you go girl! Getting everything started properly is a job.

 

[Lane]

Just feeling kind of down tonight.

Hope today is better for you Harrow