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How Are You Feeling Right Now?
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how are you doing now
mike.....
mike.....
Seabird I wish you could find a way to stop tearing yourself down. You are an absolute treasure on SF. I know you were in a relationship that did not work out. Don't forget, it takes two people to make a relationship work. You could be absolutely perfect and still have it fail it the other person would not work with you.
Please be kinder to yourself.
Please be kinder to yourself.
I know that feeling all too well. I put it as feeling like drowning by the weight of life and the world or trying to claw out of quicksand pulling you down. I believe it was @SillyOldBear in a recent thread describing a generation or so back times then had their issues but things were simpler and slower for all. No electronic smart anything and everything be an instant rush and crush. You had the time to work through problems that came up. It only gets worse with age as you lose energy and vitality to hurry and scurry about. Escape, I am for it.
taking pm leave to attend medical apt from work and will OT tues and wed to make up balance hours. also why is perfume and cosmetics so addictive 🥺🥺🥺 olala got d'alba stuffs. why so addictive when i wanna buy my own bike and nintendo switch game console.....🥺
and one customer tryna flirt with me this monday morning cleary made my day🤣🤣🤣
my colleague laughs so much she cray like shes drunk at work🤣🤣💀
and one customer tryna flirt with me this monday morning cleary made my day🤣🤣🤣
my colleague laughs so much she cray like shes drunk at work🤣🤣💀
That’s a trauma response. I frequently say this, and I do so because it’s so very true. The vast majority of our unhealthy behaviors are due to some younger part of ourselves that has not healed.
Aside from that, the verbiage you use is a textbook description of our instinctive response to threats, aka “fight or flight.” We know instinctively how to size up a situation and decide whether to fight or get the hell out of there. Animal studies indicate that the most efficient strategy is to flee every time it’s available, and only fight when trapped.
I can draw this out with a silly observation. Rabbits are arguably the world champions of getting away from threats in a hurry. Coincidentally, there is no shortage of bunnies hopping around. They do occasionally get eaten, but those unfortunate bunnies are the exception to the rule, lol.
Aside from that, the verbiage you use is a textbook description of our instinctive response to threats, aka “fight or flight.” We know instinctively how to size up a situation and decide whether to fight or get the hell out of there. Animal studies indicate that the most efficient strategy is to flee every time it’s available, and only fight when trapped.
I can draw this out with a silly observation. Rabbits are arguably the world champions of getting away from threats in a hurry. Coincidentally, there is no shortage of bunnies hopping around. They do occasionally get eaten, but those unfortunate bunnies are the exception to the rule, lol.
Ditto what Barb said, seabird. @SillyOldBear
