Practical Advice How do I permanently turn myself into a child mentally.

[AnHeroTransGirl]

@AnHeroTransGirl…I’m afraid I disagree that you are “100% willing to accept any risk”…maybe you would 100% accept any risk related to regressing to the status of child to get what you want…fine, I think you mean that.

However, in my opinion, the real risk for you is in not using adult-type tools (such as finding points of agreement and compromising) with your gf to make your relationship work. Those tools and skills are essential elements for an adult relationship in my experience. I understand why you might not want to seek common ground or compromise: Going through those discussions and processes can be challenging, and both sides need to give somewhat to get more of what they want.

Compromise usually begins by finding something to agree on, and then working on the problematic issue, hearing what the other person wants, expressing what we want, and seeing if there is some way for both sides to give a little. If no one is willing to give, then eventually the strain between the parties tends to affect the relationship, and usually not for the better. So, I’m sad that process would problematic for you.

I will leave you be, now, because I don’t have anything else to offer. I do wish you well and hope you find a satisfactory resolution.

Well that's the thing, "adult type tools" aren't good. They just complicate things and make things worse sometimes. I'm the LG in the MDLG relationship, therefore I should not expected to be the one to use "grown up tools"

 

[FlamingoWrangler]

As I review your concerns, your needs & your interactions with others, I have good news. You are already quite childlike.
You say, “I am tired of hearing that it’s not possible when it is.”
No one here knows. Where did you get this belief? That’s where you’ll find the answer. I am interested in hearing the solution, so please share the information when you get it,

If your questions, replies, overall behavior & ability to interact with others on this post are an accurate indication of your abilities, you already have the mind of a child.

I’ll look forward to hearing about the answers you find.

 

[Acy]

Hi, @AnHeroTransGirl. Lots of people have replied and are suggesting similar things. I could feel myself feeling frustrated, and I might have become a bit unpleasant — I’m sorry if I did.

I am closing this thread now. You have heard a lot of replies. I don’t think we have the answer(s)…I suspect that this situation is one you will need to work out yourself…you know best what works or doesn’t work in discussions with your gf.