How do you help yourself. When other cant
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There are many times that has happened to me, right when I need care the most - people turn away. Thru observation I have learned that people usually do that NOT when they dont care but because they dont know HOW to care. Your emotions and feeling are very intense with a lot of passion behind them and people today are not afforded the opportunities to be passionate anymore. Society has numbed us to what should catch our attention. People like you and many of us here still feel things, and it hurts us. You may feel like you have gone numb by all of this but numb is a result of feeling...not a feeling itself.
They turned on you or ran from you and your friends were not who you wanted or needed them to be...its not your fault for feeling, its just that they forgot how to feel.
You are beautiful the way you are. I hope you keep your compassion and your hurt - it is what keeps us exposed and grounded.
Tho you may think your friends there have left you - we do not do that here...
Thanks for comeing back.
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They turned on you or ran from you and your friends were not who you wanted or needed them to be...its not your fault for feeling, its just that they forgot how to feel.
You are beautiful the way you are. I hope you keep your compassion and your hurt - it is what keeps us exposed and grounded.
Tho you may think your friends there have left you - we do not do that here...
Thanks for comeing back.
~C
Well I went away came back. Never attempted anything. Dunno why.
But I did'nt. I even got the reminder on my phone for when I wanted to do it.
I sat by myself while my freind past out. And I sat and just thought. What did I think . I dont know really. It was like blank thoughts. Some thoughts of where the hell does this ride of life taking me. I dont know???? I told my freind why I brought him along. Hew just said "really!! " and nothing really much after that.
Dont know if he remembered me telling him, cause he was so out of it. But yeah
I still dont know why I did not go through with it. It seemed so unimportant to me when I got to the safari lodge .... I still feel as if I should of. What happens now??? I dont know..
Thanks for those who replied one or 2 msg's helped me a bit...
Thank you
But I did'nt. I even got the reminder on my phone for when I wanted to do it.
I sat by myself while my freind past out. And I sat and just thought. What did I think . I dont know really. It was like blank thoughts. Some thoughts of where the hell does this ride of life taking me. I dont know???? I told my freind why I brought him along. Hew just said "really!! " and nothing really much after that.
Dont know if he remembered me telling him, cause he was so out of it. But yeah
I still dont know why I did not go through with it. It seemed so unimportant to me when I got to the safari lodge .... I still feel as if I should of. What happens now??? I dont know..
Thanks for those who replied one or 2 msg's helped me a bit...
Thank you
So I have been thinking.
I will try to get through the rest of this year and see where it takes me. I get alot of time to think living by myself.
How and what is the best way to go forward without going more backwards when experiencing more failure more rejection???
I want to go forward but it seems so pointless and hard. I need a miricle....
I will try to get through the rest of this year and see where it takes me. I get alot of time to think living by myself.
How and what is the best way to go forward without going more backwards when experiencing more failure more rejection???
I want to go forward but it seems so pointless and hard. I need a miricle....
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Nice to have you with us Wolf. I am not really surprised that your mate didn't have much to say to yu telling him what you were planning....a really weird situation to be in for him i guess.
As for the future... just take it a day at a time, minuite by minnuite, second by second. Let people into your life, don't push them away and you will find that rejection, failure and loss whilst still in your life are eaiser to deal with, try to learn how to see the beauty in life and people again...not just the bad. And for those friends who turned their back on you when you needed them most...well you are better off without them, friendship is a two way street.... keep you compasion and love and don't stop giving..... I refuse to change who i am just because i keep getting hurt by muppets... my true friends wont deliberatly hurt me.
Big Hugs
As for the future... just take it a day at a time, minuite by minnuite, second by second. Let people into your life, don't push them away and you will find that rejection, failure and loss whilst still in your life are eaiser to deal with, try to learn how to see the beauty in life and people again...not just the bad. And for those friends who turned their back on you when you needed them most...well you are better off without them, friendship is a two way street.... keep you compasion and love and don't stop giving..... I refuse to change who i am just because i keep getting hurt by muppets... my true friends wont deliberatly hurt me.
Big Hugs
Nice to have you with us Wolf. I am not really surprised that your mate didn't have much to say to yu telling him what you were planning....a really weird situation to be in for him i guess.
As for the future... just take it a day at a time, minuite by minnuite, second by second. Let people into your life, don't push them away and you will find that rejection, failure and loss whilst still in your life are eaiser to deal with, try to learn how to see the beauty in life and people again...not just the bad. And for those friends who turned their back on you when you needed them most...well you are better off without them, friendship is a two way street.... keep you compasion and love and don't stop giving..... I refuse to change who i am just because i keep getting hurt by muppets... my true friends wont deliberatly hurt me.
Big Hugs
As for the future... just take it a day at a time, minuite by minnuite, second by second. Let people into your life, don't push them away and you will find that rejection, failure and loss whilst still in your life are eaiser to deal with, try to learn how to see the beauty in life and people again...not just the bad. And for those friends who turned their back on you when you needed them most...well you are better off without them, friendship is a two way street.... keep you compasion and love and don't stop giving..... I refuse to change who i am just because i keep getting hurt by muppets... my true friends wont deliberatly hurt me.
Big Hugs
I am just trying to focus on gyming and eating right at the moment to get my mind off the bad. I will try go forward step by step..... Cant promise it will work . But its worth a try . As for my freind I told about my intentions. Well I got no time for him either. He is linked to freinds of mine that turned their back. He did in a way to.
I got to try figure out what things I like to do again??? Cant even remember what I did for fun.
Some amazing people here. Never seen strangers trying to help each other before... Wish the world was like that!!
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