My husband has started to have sudden moments of irritability and anger out of nowhere (literally we can be having a nice day/conversation and he'll suddenly turn). When I talk calmly (which I usually do) about it he gets defensive and angry and shouts at me. He acts like I'm crazy for thinking he's upset when he very clearly is (it isn't just me who notices it). I've been having a bad day with my chronic pain today and for him to suddenly act like this out of nowhere and insulting me and saying things that he KNOWS hurts me the most just for the sake of hurting me, all the things I've confinded in him, all my weaknesses etc.. it's too much. I'm too suicidal (obviously lol) for this, he knows all of this but he seems to just want to hurt me out of nowhere. His dad has bipolar and I'm wondering if it's a genetic thing? Maybe he is developing it? I don't know much about bipolar but hes 24 is it too late for him to get it?